Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Anna Arya said:   9 years ago
Hello everyone,

According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.

So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.

Thank you.
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Mani said:   9 years ago
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
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Amit Rana said:   9 years ago
Love marriage.

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.

- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
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Arya said:   9 years ago
Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.

So, I strongly support love marriage.
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Pooja Sharma said:   9 years ago
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, both marriages having some failure and some successes. So, I think both marriages are good and it totally based on couples. In both relationships, they need to trust, respect, love each other, take care of each other and the main thing they adjust and cooperate with each other and with their families also.
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Vipin sharma said:   9 years ago
Hi, I'm Vipin.

In my perception, love marriage is the best choice for the couples because they love each other and love is the important part of our life when the person suffered by emptiness then the love makes feel you special and very important and our parents should understand their children's feelings.

Thanks a lot.
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Sukanya said:   9 years ago
HI friends,

I'm Sukanya, both love and arrange marriages are having some failures. Love marriages are sometimes not perfect at the same time arrange marriages also very poor. Because, of their cooperation, relationship, sharing, adjustments, love and caring. Some times both are thinking bad. I support arrange marriages why so parents select right family and right decessions, some cases it's not correct. Love marriages are somewhat good but they are not able to do acceptance of parent decisions they do own decisions.

Thank you.
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Poonam said:   9 years ago
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, however, it is fact that about 90% still have arranged marriages, an arrange marriage is the center is the attention of family union. Love marriage is nothing but it is only attraction after some time attraction will be finished and after some time they grumble to each other then they take big decision for divorce so love marriage has a not ever.
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Naveen said:   9 years ago
Hi friends, in my opinion, I think marriage word is given by society. And in society, there are all including our family. And the human is the social animal. So doesn't matter marriage is love or arrange. Matter is how much blessings you have to their relationship. Because one is broken into all. God is one.
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Sowndarya said:   9 years ago
Hi Friends,

Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationship, they need to take care for each others, respect each other , love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.

Thanks.
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