Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Priyanka said:
7 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partner. Her/his behaviour, character, taste choices everything. But in arrange marriage by arranging one meeting how could they decide that they made for each other. I think that we do arrange a marriage for our parents and society. But in love marriage, we can satisfy ourselves. That's why I support love marriage.
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Sanjay Kumar S said:
3 years ago
Hi all,
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
I'm Sanjay Kumar,
Arranged marriage. It's like a fresh relationship which is arranged by a family where we get a new person in our life and start a new life the thing is we don't know anything about them in person day by day we get attached and then they love each other it's like a long journey but sometimes everything won't go in a way we like it's also after some months we can't get to a vibe along with them so it's like 50-50 chances to get a good partner.
But in a love arrangement, we get to know our partner already and can live a life which the couples have already dreamed among them to lead a life and both can be supportive of each other and we can get a good marriage life of about 80-90% or even 100%. So, love or arrange marriage. To get a proper good life we need to know each other before getting into marriage. Thank you.
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Sameena said:
2 years ago
First of all, we can't say which marriage is better than the other.
Because there were people who were happy in their love marriage & there were few people who were happy in arranged marriages.
But in my point of view, I would like to choose a love marriage.
In a love marriage, we already know the person very well as we have spent quality time with them before. And they support us in every situation. Even if they have conflicts in between relationship they will sort them out by themself, they won't give a chance to a third person to ruin their life. In a love marriage, a girl can live an independent life. Rest of their life they can live happily as they want without any restrictions.
Because there were people who were happy in their love marriage & there were few people who were happy in arranged marriages.
But in my point of view, I would like to choose a love marriage.
In a love marriage, we already know the person very well as we have spent quality time with them before. And they support us in every situation. Even if they have conflicts in between relationship they will sort them out by themself, they won't give a chance to a third person to ruin their life. In a love marriage, a girl can live an independent life. Rest of their life they can live happily as they want without any restrictions.
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Abhishek pandey said:
8 years ago
Hello everyone.
Everyone shared there opinion. And everyone is right in their own perception. But we cannot say that which type of marriage is good or bad. See both of them has its own pros and cons.
So in my opinion, both love and arranged marriage is good. But the only thing required is LOVE no matter whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.
Everyone shared there opinion. And everyone is right in their own perception. But we cannot say that which type of marriage is good or bad. See both of them has its own pros and cons.
So in my opinion, both love and arranged marriage is good. But the only thing required is LOVE no matter whether it is love marriage or arranged marriage.
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Shivanjali Gupta said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone,
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.
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Malini said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone!
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.
So family support is most necessary if not.
Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.
Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.
Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.
Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.
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Sri said:
8 years ago
Hello friends,
In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.
In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.
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Neelesh verma said:
6 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage and arrange marriage is just a name, both are nothing without understanding, where the understanding met the word of marriage is successful. So, it is all about understanding love & care for each other. When the couple has all these things then they live a happy life, whether it is arranged or love marriage.
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Ajay sehray said:
8 years ago
Hello friends.
By point of view.
I am in the favor of love marriage because in love marriage the couple knows their quality, behavior and emotion very well. They understand their problem very well and they can solve those problems very easily. But in arrange marriage couple don't know each other very well after arranged marriage they find that their thinking, behavior, quality, emotion don't match that cause of divorce. So, friends, I prefer love marriage than an arranged marriage.
Thank you.
By point of view.
I am in the favor of love marriage because in love marriage the couple knows their quality, behavior and emotion very well. They understand their problem very well and they can solve those problems very easily. But in arrange marriage couple don't know each other very well after arranged marriage they find that their thinking, behavior, quality, emotion don't match that cause of divorce. So, friends, I prefer love marriage than an arranged marriage.
Thank you.
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Ankit Singhania said:
7 years ago
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. There are various points for the support of this statement.
1) We are the inhabitants of India which is famous all over the world for its culture and civilization. India is known to be a pyous country who does not allow the love marriage. As we all know that love marriage is a system of the Western country. Then why we use western culture?
2) Parents are considered to be god and goddess in our Indian society. They provide food, cloth, better education. They have a lot of expectations from us. We can not break their heart by doing love marriage.
3) The divorce rate is so high for Western countries which is above 50%. Because they prefer love marriage. But in India, this divorce rate is only 1%. How? Because we prefer to arrange marriage.
After concluding all these points we came to know that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
1) We are the inhabitants of India which is famous all over the world for its culture and civilization. India is known to be a pyous country who does not allow the love marriage. As we all know that love marriage is a system of the Western country. Then why we use western culture?
2) Parents are considered to be god and goddess in our Indian society. They provide food, cloth, better education. They have a lot of expectations from us. We can not break their heart by doing love marriage.
3) The divorce rate is so high for Western countries which is above 50%. Because they prefer love marriage. But in India, this divorce rate is only 1%. How? Because we prefer to arrange marriage.
After concluding all these points we came to know that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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