Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

According to me, arrange marriage is best because it is done by the happiness and blessings of Parents and family members.

I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person, not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previously there was a lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage, you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they judge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have the wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get boring after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have a better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.

According to me, there is no problem in arranged marriages, but if we already love someone then even our parents should understand that and give a chance to that person with whom we want to spend our life.

But people always assume that if we have chosen someone or if we love someone, then that person is not right for us. Why is it so?

Our parents have the right to choose a life partner for us, but don't we have any right on our life? We are the ones who have to spend the whole life with that person, so it's very important that there is love between the two. But the society and family are generally very partial regarding this. If you love your better half after marriage, then it's perfect, but if you love them before marriage. They'll make you feel so guilty about it even when it's nothing wrong in it.

At the end, I would only say that if respecting our parents decision is our duty, then their duty is also to see whether we are happy with their decisions or not.

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I'm Ananda Kumar Rout.

In my opinion, there is no doubt that arranged marriage is good for a person because the parents who gave birth to them choose their life partner. There will be a new relationship between two strangers. But from my point of view, love marriage is much better than arrange marriage. Marriage is more important for women than for men Sometimes a girl is forced to marry a person chosen by her parents A girl should have the freedom to choose her life partner with whom she spends her leisure life In a love marriage a person can choose his life partner. They can get to know each other's personal life, secrets, personality, and character which can never happen in a love marriage. Love marriage can able remove the dowry system. Love marriage is the best weapon to destroy caste marriage.

In my opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are good. Because it depends on two people mutual understanding. How to treat each other behavior, love, honesty, care. In love marriage, they know each other good hobbies bad hobbies how to treat partner when he angry they know everything before marriage happy, unhappy things how to handle upon our partner.

And in arrange marriage they know after marriage each other they take time to understand each other about partner behavior, care, anger, like, and it depends on similarity and Understanding. In arrange marriage problems come so your parents do compromise about two people. If love marriage comes a problem so couples self solve own problems. According to me both marriage are good marriages all depend on two people thinking Understanding and behavior nothing at all.

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According to me, Arrange marriage is quite beautiful because two unknown people are involved in this relationship. And both families support this. And help the future husband and wife to understand each other. When these two people come together they start understanding each other very closely and slowly and I think this makes their relationship beautiful. And their interest in their partner slowly increases day by day. And this will make their marriage quite strong as compare to love marriage. Because in love marriage, the both people know each other already and after marriage, they will get bored and lost d feeling and interest in each other. So My point of you Arrange marriage is most beautiful and strong marriage which not only come two people together but also join two families together.

It's not about LOVE marriage or Arrange marriage. Failure happens in both cases. Out of my 4 cousins, 2 had arranged marriage and they are very happy. One cousin had LOVE marriage (after relation of 3 years) and they are planning for divorce, after 2 years of marriage, 4th cousin is happy in their LOVE marriage.

Life before marriage is totally different, When you date someone you will always try to impress each other with your positive things and you try to hide your negative side. This happens in both cases LOVE and ARRANGED marriage.

Remember below things for successful marriage.

Honesty, respect and commitment, person space.

Hello Friends.

Today we are discussing the topic.

" Love marriage vs Arrange marriage ".

Although in India Arrange marriage is most successful but in my opinion love marriage is best. In love marriage, both partners knew very well to each other before they get married. There doesn't matter of caste whom to your love & lack chance of dispute.

If in future Relationships not very well then they are self-responsible for it, instead of blaming on their Parents & Relatives.

Conclusion:

Both love marriage & Arrange marriage may succeed & can be longer if Both Partners loyal, satisfied& not misunderstanding to each other.

This is the point of my side.

Thank you.

Good morning everyone, First of all, Thanks for giving me to the golden opportunity to say something about love arranged vs arranged marriage Arranged marriage is better than love marriage because in Arranged marriage family will decide where they liked. But in love marriage, only two people will decide to do married. And some family problems will face during a love marriage some people want but some people won't want. But in an Arranged marriage, all the family members will agree and then fix the marriage and the family will be happy and enjoy an arranged marriage.

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According to my point of view, both are good because no one person having same selection or taste, they prefer what they want.

But both love and arranged marriages are having problems.

LOVE Marriage:

1. In love marriage both genders are facing the main problem is to convince their parents.

2. Incase both families agree with their love they are very lucky couple.

3. Love marriage makes a strong bond between the couples because of they already know their feelings, behaviour, character everything, so they adjusted in their life.

4. They both families are don't know each other because they also having good effection.

ARRANGED marriages:

1. A strong family support having these marriages.

2. In Arranged marriages mostly both are don't know their behaviour etc. So initially they get shy.

3. In case any Quarles among these people they families is combined and alive the problems.

Finally, both marriages are equal but in love, they mingle small point of time in arranged marriages they take a long time.

Thank you.