Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.

For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.

In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.

We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.

Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.

Hello everyone.

Our topic for discussion is love vs arranged marriage.

Firstly I want to start the discussion by saying that one cannot judge the best out of these two marriages as it depends upon the understanding, trust between the couple itself and nothing to do with the type of marriage.

In both the marriages pros and cons are there. Coming to love marriage;

1. There will be good understanding b/w the couple as they know each other pretty well.

2. As they know each others likes n dislikes they will behave accordingly.

3. Planned love lives will result in great future.

4. Equality prevails in their relationship.

Disadvantages:

1. As they are mostly independent they take their own decisions quickly without considering parents and relatives like taking divorse.

2. Youngsters these days are confusing attraction to love and facing prblms after marriage.

Arrange marriage advantages.

1. Parents once for twice before coming up with a match.

2. They verify completely about the family background so that there shouldn't be any prblm in future.

3. The couple will think of their families and try to understand instead of going for divorce for silly reasons.

Disadvantages.

1. If there is no much tym to interact before marriage one cannot understand each other properly and will face prblms to share anything after marriage with their partners.

2. Whether love will blossom b/w each other or not will be a big question.

At last, I would like to conclude saying marriage is a life long commitment so decision should be in ones hand.

I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.

Hello, Friend's My Self Rajkumar.

I Strongly support love marriage.

I agree with all of you because they understand each other a long time, there is no dowry system, no category and no religion, which is better for our country, because these created a lot's of problem in arrange marriage. There is no problem in Love marriage.

So I think Love marriage is better than arranging marriage.

I Ful Support Love Marriage.

Hi viewers, right now confusion is based on love or arrange marriage. My thought is that the arrange marriage is the best one because love is just an attraction towards a boy or a girl. But arrange marriage creates a best surroundings around the individual couples.

Love marriage makes us to sacrifices all things including parents also. But in arrange marriage no sacrifices, no violence, only peace full life. In some cases love marriage is also made into arrange marriage because of good families relationship. But 90% of love marriage is failed. So please think of it.

New generation supporting LOVE marriages, and claiming LOVE marriage is successful. But the reality is totally opposite. In my friend circle itself, many Love marriages are failed.

I am not saying ARRANGE marriage are very good. But much better than LOVE marriages. Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background. Because many frauds happing in both LOVE and ARRANGE marriages.

So I will prefer Arrange marriage.

Hi friends.

According to me, arranged marriages is much more better than love marriages.

Love marriages give temporary pleasure but permanent pain.

Arrange marriage gives temporary pain but permanent pleasure.

Hi Dears,

In my opinion, about this topic is, I am supporting an arranged marriage. Obviously, we have a right to do love marriage. That is not really a matter. But the thing we should give more priority to our "parents "Because when the time of our birth, The two people long dream came true. That is our Father and Mother. On that occasion, they thought like the whole world is in their hand. From there itself, they would give more care. In every second they would think about you. If you got any small injury, it will break their heart. Like that they will help us to grow up. After when we stand our own leg, we can take the decision to do love marriage. Is that too good? I don't think so. We should give more priority to our parents' opinion. They can find a better life partner for us.

Hi guys, I am Veer.

I think arrange marriage is the best. Because our parents happiness is more important to all. It's a real happiness of our all parents. Our parents well know, which life is suited for our future. Parents happiness is our happiness. So don't hurt our parents. It's Our parents' expectation too. Some parents will accept love marriage. Because of our sons/ daughter happiness. I am not against love marriage. Marriage is not a two heart joining function, It's a two family joining function. Suppose we fall in love don't leave that girl for our parents and that same time doesn't leave our parents for that girl. No one is live without parents blessing. So love our parents.

Last think, love become to arrange marriage with parents support is the best of our lifetime.

I think arrange marriage is better, because at the time when there is not a good relation between girl and boy after marriage the whole family of the both sides stand with you in arrange marriage but in love marriage, you are alone because you fight with them for your love one.