Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shahwaj khan said:   8 years ago
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.
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Indrajeet kumar sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.
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Pradeep said:   8 years ago
I like love marriage. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.
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Pavetthren said:   8 years ago
I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.
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Ankit Singh said:   8 years ago
Whether it is love marriage or Arranged marriage, the "Love" is the only adhesive of bondage the souls of both.

As long as Love exists, there will be no problem at all.
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Sri said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.
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Vignesh Murthi said:   8 years ago
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.
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Mona said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.
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Tejpal sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.
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Alok sharma said:   8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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