Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Tejpal sharma said:
8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.
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Alok sharma said:
8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.
In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.
Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.
And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.
Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.
And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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Saroj said:
8 years ago
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.
It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.
Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.
In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.
I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.
It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.
So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.
It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.
Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.
In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.
I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.
It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.
So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.
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Med said:
8 years ago
I think the love marriage is good because before you marriage you know the behaviours of your husband the thing that make him funny and angry even you can't make a mistake but arranged mariage is bad because you don't any behaviours to your husband even you mary today and you will devorce him tomorow it mean that marriage can't take a long periode it so short periode. Thanks.
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Ashu Yadav said:
8 years ago
Hello Everyone.
I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.
I support Both types of marriage have their own fun. And as you all know that many people in our society believe in love marriage. Because this types of marriage is based on understand between two parts and the settlement in there family. And in love marriage we know each other very well and from this can build good understanding. But in arrange there is an amazing thing that is person whom we doesn't know she or he become life partner so we have so much things to share because it is arranged by parents that's all thanks.
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Prashant Singh said:
8 years ago
Hello friends,
My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.
If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.
My name is Prashant singh. Our topic is about love marriage vs arrange marriage. In my opinion, both situations is right. It is depends on couples and his behavior. I thought that love marriage is a marriage when a girl or boy fall in love and he wants to marry. If his love is believable, he can success in his life. On the other hand, arrange marriage is our society system, it is depend on parents opinion so if any person doesn't fall in love he do arrange marriage and live happy with his life.
If we talk about present situation, most of the boys or girls fall in love and want to live with another. It is only depend on love with each other, believe with each other and respect with each other. So I think both situations is right. It is depend on couple. Thank you for reading me.
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Mithilesh said:
8 years ago
In my opinion whether there is love marriage or arrange marriage the only thing which is important is understanding between husband and wife. If they understand each other than their life defiantly be heaven.
Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.
If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.
And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.
Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.
If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.
And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.
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Vignesh Murthi said:
8 years ago
First of All, Everyone of us Might fall in love Once in our lifetime, Think That Love marriage is Way of Nature Where other beings Select their own life partner, just like human too have some feelings we should respect that but only maturity says Your Selected partner is Right or wrong. So to my opinion arrange marriage or inter caste marriage is abnormal. And for those for lovers Need is understanding between them. If there is no understanding Both type of marriages may fail. Thank you For reading.
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Shahrukh khan said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, both type of marriage is good, it's not about type of marriage, it's all about partners, I have seen both the marriage converted into divorce so it doesn't matter which type of marriage we go through, most important thing in marriage is understanding between partner's, trust, honesty, loyalty and how they cooperate with each other.
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Devendra said:
8 years ago
Its simple, you can't decide that when you will fall in love. Its a sudden incident. We grown up with a moral thought that give love and get love. So why not love marriage is a moral thing? Arrange marriage is decision of our parents when we don't have any choice, when we don't get happy by just seeing someone. Love is a great feeling, its god gifted so we have to accept it nor refuse. Both are best but love is a pure form of relationship.
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