Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Saurabh Kumar said:   8 years ago
Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage.

I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.

In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.

And family members, society accepted easily.

But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.

We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.
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Gaurav Joshi said:   8 years ago
I think it is not the matter of arrange or love marriage, but is of the two persons involved in it and how they understand each other feelings and affection. If an individual put behind its social-economic ego and comparison and make a relationship happier than it does not matter either the marriage is love or arranged. An understanding person nurture their life after being married and manage their relationship far well in future.
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Dev pandey said:   8 years ago
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is batter than love marriage.

Because love marriage is totally based on physical attraction and beauty.

When time passed physical beauty abridge and our love is finish.

In arrange marriage we marry such a person who is chosen by our parent. Our parents have much understanding of life so they choose for us best.
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Ajay sehray said:   8 years ago
Hello friends.

By point of view.

I am in the favor of love marriage because in love marriage the couple knows their quality, behavior and emotion very well. They understand their problem very well and they can solve those problems very easily. But in arrange marriage couple don't know each other very well after arranged marriage they find that their thinking, behavior, quality, emotion don't match that cause of divorce. So, friends, I prefer love marriage than an arranged marriage.

Thank you.
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Shilpa verma said:   8 years ago
In my Opinion,

Love marriage is almost good than arrange marriage because Every one girl or a boy know about their behavior, nature, Emotions, etc each other.

In India, All the In Indians preferred to arrange marriage According to their situation, thinking etc. Everyone thinks different in different-different situations. Most people have their own thinking according to the atmosphere.
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Rahul sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

As we are discussing on love or arranged marriage, I prefer love marriage because in love marriage couples are well known about each other. They know about like habits, unlike habits, nature, behavior etc each other. They can spend the perfect time of life than arranged marriage if they know what is the true love? If the parents also agree for love marriage then life is also more wonderful and lovely. And if parents do not agree for love marriage, and you left home for love marriage, then love marriage can create a huge problem in future.

But in an arranged marriage, if parents choose a girl for you then couples are not well known to each other. There can be so many confusions, different mindset, unlike behavior, that can create problem and life can be spoiled.
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Humaira said:   8 years ago
I think it depends on which marriage you get offered first. If you fall in love with someone I think it's best to talk to your family about marrying this person so they do sort out any marriage arrangements they have made or want to make. You need to consider the couple feelings. I know a family who is in problems because their son is in love with one girl but his parents have made him marry his cousin whom they arranged. Now he has both women and he is only happy with the one he fell in love with. He keeps the wife his parents chose because he wants to make them happy and keep family pride. To make it worst he has kids with both women. I think love marriage is better in this case. If he had not found someone he loves then yes he can just do arrange marriage. In love marriage, you fall in love with the things you get to know about the person. That's why we fall in love. In arrange marriage you only start to love the person because you care for them, they look after your family perhaps. But it is in most cases, not true love.
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Nancy said:   8 years ago
In my opinion,

Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.

If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.

In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.

For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Sunakshi said:   8 years ago
Hi, guys.

In this topic, I will say that if you find a nice person whom you think you can be spent your whole with that person you should go for love marriage otherwise leave it on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.

Thanks.
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Raja said:   8 years ago
Hello friend.

Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.
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