Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hi, guys good morning.

According to my opinion, both love and arrange marriage are good. But love marriage is own decision and arrange marry is our relative decision. We want to love marry only when then our parents on agree on that. I thing marry is a union of two soul. Marry is decided our future because whole life buzz with one person. So both good but take a good decision.

According to me, Both marriages are best if their relationship has understanding, love and trust. Because this all depends upon these things. Without these things, no one marriage will succeed. Thank you.

So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.

According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.

What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.

Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.

So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.

Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.

If love marriage turns into arrange marriage, it will be better for the future family planning of spouse. You can love someone/anyone but you can not get married to anyone without violating your guardian permission.

There is no surety about which will be successful, an arranged marriage or a love marriage. There is no perfect age to get married but there are perfect secrets which makes a relationship long lasting.

We have same problems in both just the tastes are different. The foundation of the relationship should not be based on our likes or dislikes because it's definite that two different person must posses some similarities or dissimilarities which is the law of nature.

They must develop a proper maturity and knowledge before getting into relationship. It can be possible sometimes that the person whom we love now doesn't posses those qualities which makes the married life stable.

One should inquire about whether he/she respect you or not, what he/she can sacrifice for you will decide your importance in his/her life.

In arranged marriage also one can clear his/her doubts about the questions which makes a relationship perfect because the happiness is not accessible just due to other partner but due to his qualities which makes the bondage stronger.

So there is no problem in both but one must has the perfect maturity, knowledge about the facts and qualities in the other which makes your relationship strong and happy.

Hello everyone.

Marriage Means a journey of life with two souls.

Marriage means to souls having the ability to have patiece and to contribute equally to make it a great life.

Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly but in arranged marriage people not know each other.

I favor a love marriage with the permission of our parents.

Both have merits and demerits.

In a love marriage, both partners understand their feeling, like, and dislike. It is the plus point of love marriage but afterwords the relationship bounding is not some as before mostly divorce case happen in love marriage. So that your oven place both are right.

In case of arranged marriage, both partners do not understand each other. So it takes time. Show your feeling and both are feeling as shy.

So some advantages in arrange marriage. So both type of marriage does not perfect. We should have love emotion and respect.

In my opinion, an arrange marriage is better than a love marriage because two families are happy to see each other and they bless them. I know that arranged marriage is a part of compromise and adjustment but if you get used to a luxurious life then you will not be able to live anywhere without any facilities.

Hello everyone.

According to me, we can't judge a marriage as successful or unsuccessful by blaming the love and arranged marriage. It totally depends on the mutual understanding between the two people who have taken the decision to live together throughout their life. So, if the bonding between both of them are strong then neither or nor anyone can judge their marriage. So my friend all marriage is good and they are really successful if our mental understanding is perfect. So, thank you and have a great day.

According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.

In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.