Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Prashant kumar said:   7 years ago
In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage because in an arranged marriage, after marriage couple respect each other and try to know about life partner what is his/her desire. This marriage is also done by the support of parents and family members and blessings also.

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Gaurav thakur said:   7 years ago
According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents are happy with this. But if they do not happy, we can not do so. Because if we want respect from others, we should obey our parents. In arrange marriage we take some time to understand the feelings of each other. Where in love marriage we understand feelings of each other very well. But we can not blamed others if our relationship get broken, and we are disrespected from all people. This is the main reason that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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VIPUL said:   7 years ago
In Love Marriage, more expectation than the surprise of love after Marriage, whereas in Arranged Marriage there is always a surprise of love with less expectation. In Love Marriage, most of the times Love ends and Marriage life (expectation) starts whereas in Arranged Marriage, Marriage life (expectation) ends and the surprise of Love starts.
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Praveen said:   7 years ago
Hello, my dear friends.

In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.
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Sonu Gupta said:   9 years ago
Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is better than love marriage because love marriage is not going a long time. Both are not respected each other and arrange marriage is supported from family so as both have commitment, honestly and respect each other. So I supported arrange marriage.
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Bharathidevi said:   9 years ago
Hi.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. I prefer arranged marriage. Because parents are supported and in future you have any problems parents are guided. In love marriages parents are not supported.
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Manish chaurasia said:   8 years ago
In my point of view, both marriages are successful. But arrange marriage is more successful than love marriage. Because in love marriage young girls and boys say that we know each other completely and they get married. But I think they know each other only towards positively their negative activities are hidden. And also in love marriage less family support. So love marriage Is not maintain relationship with all the members of families for a long time. But in arrange marriage right understanding between bride and bridegroom's family. Relationship maintained for long time and marriage couple trust and respect each other too much. In India divorce rate is very low as compared to advanced countries. Because in our country gives more priority of arrange marriage. According to divorce rate of most of the countries divorce rate of love marriage is too much more than arrange marriage. So according to me arrange marriage is much better than love marriage and safe.
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Deepak Mandal said:   8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage, couples are known very well each other. Love marriage is our aspects of life.
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Bilawal said:   8 years ago
In my point of view,

Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.
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Mithilesh said:   8 years ago
In my opinion whether there is love marriage or arrange marriage the only thing which is important is understanding between husband and wife. If they understand each other than their life defiantly be heaven.

Similarly if understand b/w husband and wife not good than their life surely become hell.

If you find your lover with whom you can spent whole life then you should go through love marriage. And if not then go through arranged marriage then, let it put to the god hand, who knows there will be one of the happiest couple.

And at last I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also can be happen after marriage.
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