Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Nancy said:   8 years ago
In my opinion,

Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.

If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.

In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.

For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Prarthna Sahu said:   7 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in that case, we know the person, his good habits and his bad habits, we understand each other that's why we are together in a relationship.

In love marriage, we know the person before marriage, so we know that person is good for us or not.
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ABEL said:   7 years ago
According to me, arranged marriage is overall better than love marriage. Because in arranged marriage people get enough time to express their feeling with a partner. But in love marriage, they really don't understand each other. Most of the love in male and female occurs in their school time or college time. In that time, they have only seen few qualities of the people whom they love.
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Sakshi said:   7 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage if our parents support us. Because in love marriage we know most of the things (likes and dislikes) about our partner. But in the arrange marriage there may be the pressure from our parents and we can suffer from it in our future.
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Rashi said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, the arrange marriages are much better than love marriages because first of all it is according to the consent and happiness of both the families. Secondly, parents are children's best wishes. So they decide the best for their children. And life is much more sorted in arrange marriage than a love marriage.
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Rian Ahmed said:   9 years ago
As I think the Arranged marriage is better than the love marriage.
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Dananjani said:   9 years ago
When a couple get marry in love they have comprehension about each other. So they can know what is good for us and what is bad for us, when a arrange marriage happens parents only look about the family. But love is more stronger than anything in the world. If girl and boy have a real love their family life become more success.
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Anna Arya said:   8 years ago
Hello everyone,

According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.

So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.

Thank you.
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Jitesh said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.
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Shalini said:   8 years ago
I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.
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