Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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ANKIT GURAWARIA said:
6 years ago
Hello everyone.
My name is Ankit Gurawaria.
Today's topic is love marriage v/s arrange marriage.
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?
Marriage is an understanding between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, behavior, thinking etc. ) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Thank you.
My name is Ankit Gurawaria.
Today's topic is love marriage v/s arrange marriage.
I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?
Marriage is an understanding between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that people know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, behavior, thinking etc. ) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Thank you.
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Raj Gupta said:
6 years ago
Hello friend.
My Name is Raj.
According to my point of view love marriage and arrange marriage both are depending on understanding.
But love marriage is thinking about oneself.
And arrange marriage is all.
My Name is Raj.
According to my point of view love marriage and arrange marriage both are depending on understanding.
But love marriage is thinking about oneself.
And arrange marriage is all.
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Sidh is king said:
4 years ago
Love marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc. ,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But, I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
1. Understanding one other easily and Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. In love marriage either must be done at least a job.
3. Due to some parents do not accept love marriage then they were to depend for food, shelter etc. ,
Arrange marriage pros and cons:
1. Understanding each other makes some time. Understanding makes stress free from any problems.
2. And there is a parent's support for any cause.
3. It also has a condition to do a job to run the family.
Conclusion:
Arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
But, I am not saying love marriage is bad. We must accept both parents to support them for love. When they accept then love marriage also can be done in arrange marriage.
Here in arrange marriage, all the relatives are blessed to make relationship for about 100 years happy.
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Patatu said:
9 years ago
Good morning everyone:
Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.
But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.
So in my point of view love marriage is best!.
Good luck.
Today we have good topic for discussion i.e. love marriage vs arrange marriage.
In love marriage, both he and she become first friend after they are cared for each other and entered into commitment, while they are building a career.
But in arrange marriage, parents choosing a partner for her child after completion of their career and when they are settled down. After marriage, they become friends and then they entered into their life so that they are wasted there half-life for understanding each other and commitment.
So in my point of view love marriage is best!.
Good luck.
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Saurabh Kumar said:
8 years ago
Love marriage vs Arranged Marriage.
I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.
In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.
And family members, society accepted easily.
But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.
We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.
I support both loves and arrange because marriage is not a game. But only there is a problem in love marriage in India is not acceptable by parents and family members because there are so many issues comes over such as tradition caste system which is a vital and critical issue for our society thinking. i.e, is why couples are not supported by parents when there is a problem. But in some family members who are educated then acceptable only and only both couples are in a good job or both are in same dignity and having a same education degree.
In arrange Marriage there is no such type of problem i.e, parents always with us.
And family members, society accepted easily.
But there is a problem dowry system which is also a critical issue which damaged girl's life.
We have to think that marriage is whole life bonding. And we have to understand it's a marriage love or arranged first understand to each other. His /her emotions and feelings.
(43)
Nupur said:
7 years ago
Good evening everyone,
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
So, love marriage or arrange marriage all it depends where your souls lie. Yes, in love marriages both know each other form earlier and in arrange marriage it took time to know which most the people think it may not work so lets talk about the time of our parents or grandparents where family finds spouse for them they do not even meet each other before marriage but it works well though there might be facing some problem in early stage they managed to do some compromises. So what I am trying to say its all about accepting and understanding each other. But according to my love marriage with parents consent is best.
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Preeti Maurya said:
9 years ago
I support to arrange marriage because in love there is no hesitation to talk to each other but in arranging there is a feeling of hesitation to talk to each other which makes the CUTE RELATIONSHIP.
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Alex said:
9 years ago
All have different taste and preferences. One can be in favour of something while the other can't be. And we can't force anyone to feel in the Same way that we feel. My intention is not to hurt anyone.
But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.
So I prefer the arranged marriage.
But if I have to choose between love and arrange I would go with the arrange one. Our parents had sacrificed their dreams in order to fulfil our small demands, so when it comes to choosing bride/groom they will choose the right one for their child. Both the families will be in touch so it'll be easier for the couple to solve their problems which come on their way. We can take the example of our own parents how they are spending their life with their beloved ones, ones who used to be stranger. We have more time to understand each other. Don't it sound interesting at first people don't know each other but as the time passes they become close and their friendship gets stronger and their trust, they care each other as a best friend rather than a lover. Isn't it beautiful? in arrange, marriage couples are guided by parents experience so there is less probability of misunderstanding and divorce.
So I prefer the arranged marriage.
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Tinku verma said:
9 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Because we know each other and negative and positive things.
But We can do love marriage like arrange.
Than love marriage be successful in life.
Because we know each other and negative and positive things.
But We can do love marriage like arrange.
Than love marriage be successful in life.
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Mohit saini said:
9 years ago
According to my side of view, arrange marriage is most better than love marriage because if you do love marriage then it's not only of your choice it's of all your family members and how much you know if one person decide something then he is not always right but if many people decide something then many times it is right so I am with arrange marriage and we are also secured by both the families and in arrange marriage we don't have any problems if we have than many people are there to solve it.
Thanks.
Thanks.
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