Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Shahwaj khan said:
8 years ago
Hi, friends.
According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.
According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.
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Randi said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone,
Talking about love marriage generally both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambitions etc and they have already had an idea about their future. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. All these things are not possible in arrange marriage. Some of the times in arrange marriage one agrees to get married because of their parents. Love marriage gives you the freedom to decide the path of your life. So love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Talking about love marriage generally both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambitions etc and they have already had an idea about their future. Both the partners had already opened to each other and also they have evaluated their relationship before marriage how long can they take up. All these things are not possible in arrange marriage. Some of the times in arrange marriage one agrees to get married because of their parents. Love marriage gives you the freedom to decide the path of your life. So love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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Nisha said:
9 years ago
Slowly marriage is losing its ground, because of affairs before marriage, fake dowry cases and post marital affairs. Soon time will come when no one will believe in marriage.
We are blindly following the western culture. If you see the culture of western countries like USA/UK/Germany, You will see at least 80% people take divorce once in life and goes for second marriage.
My choice will be ARRANGE marriage in some known and respected family.
We are blindly following the western culture. If you see the culture of western countries like USA/UK/Germany, You will see at least 80% people take divorce once in life and goes for second marriage.
My choice will be ARRANGE marriage in some known and respected family.
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Misha said:
9 years ago
Marriage is a bond between two persons who want to live their rest of life with each other. I am in favour of love marriage because two people who decided to live life with each other must have good understanding, compassionate about each other.
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Sravan Kumar B said:
9 years ago
Both Types has their Pros & Cons.
I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.
You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.
You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.
Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.
Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.
I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.
I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.
I support Arranged marriage, Marriage is not Just an individual matter, it's of a Family.
You can find partner from the Family of same Financial status.
You can find partner from same culture & type of Family.
Its is not that you are forcefully married, You have choice to choose within the scope.
Attraction or infatuation or even LOVE cannot withhold relations, it does need money, commitment.
I feel Commitment & money can be guaranteed in Arranged marriage, unlike Love marriage.
I left my parents for my Love which haunts me. Till death.
(44)
Rohit said:
8 years ago
Arrange marriage is good because of marriage is not just becoming between 2 couples its becoming with 2 families. All family members have hope about to their child if you go out from their words means they won't do support is future.
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Manohar said:
8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because understanding between two known people is better than two unknown person. In love marriage, the couple has a better understanding. They will be loyal each other. Some of my friends are saying that arranged marriage has more success rate. But according to governments survey most of the women harassment cases, dowry cases, violation cases registered in arrange marriages. But in love marriage either we have a happy life or we will get divorced. We will not get as many complaints we got in arranges marriage. Also want to say that whey could solve any problem. Because they have a mutual understanding. In our society, some parents are not allowed for love marriage. But we all are mature. Our parents always think for our good future. But it doesn't mean they will be always right. Maybe they wrong sometimes.
(44)
Honey said:
8 years ago
In my point of, both marriages depend in own self.
In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.
In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.
For me both marriages are good.
In love marraige, they connect with each other in all ways already.
In arrange marraige, they will connect with each other in ways they excited to know about many things to partner.
For me both marriages are good.
(44)
Saroj said:
8 years ago
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.
It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.
Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.
In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.
I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.
It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.
So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.
It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.
Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.
In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.
I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.
It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.
So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.
(44)
Mona said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.
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