Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Topic: love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Deciding how you want to marry, arranged marriage or love marriage, should be an individual's own perspective, it shouldn't be based on anyone else's thinking, Because after all you are the person who is going to be doing the marriage.

The mindset of Indian society is very lagged behind, And in respective of surviving in this uncertain world, you are supposed to cope with the trends.

Marriages are not bad, whether it be arranged or love, it's the human being where the problem is, Some the love marriages work very well, where you don't know the other person at all, on the other hand, some the love marriages don't work, where you knew the person beforehand.

So it's just a matter of shame if you are blaming the marriage rather than the person.

Compromise is the key for every relationship to be peaceful and successful, be it son- dad, mom-son, husband-wife, etc.

With the above discussion, I would finally like to conclude by saying that, Whatever a person wants to choose, love marriage or arrange marriage let it be, don't ever put your thoughts into somebody else, it might be good for you but not for others.

Thank you.

Hi friends first of all thanks for giving an opportunity to display my view on the topic love marriage vs arrange marriage.

In my point of view love marriage is better than other. In love marriage the both of them know there character very well, in arranged marriage it will take more time to know the other person.

This is the main problem for going to divorce after marriage. In love marriage there is only one problem they don't have any family support if they had it then it will be the best life for that couples.

Marriage is a lifetime partnership between two souls, who come together to celebrate their life journey with each other happily. In a love marriage, individuals choose their partners by their own choice, they love each other and get married with or without the consent of their parents. Whereas in an arranged marriage, parents and family members decide the future and partners of individuals.

The concept of arranged marriage is not wrong just the millennials could not fit in. Love marriage, on the other hand, is a suitable option choice for millennials because of its beauty of compatibility. Love marriage holds the characteristics which a modern couple is in search of.

Love marriage allows individuals to know each other well and to absorb each other’s flaws by taking as much time as they want to get ready for marriage and this is what makes it easy to hold on to the lifelong commitment. Education and surrounding also play a significant role in the preference of individuals. After, all the above discussion, one cannot strongly favor any of the two marriages. One cannot say, love marriages are more successful or vice versa, as a successful marriage is not when a perfect couple meets, but when two flawed persons accept each other completely and happily.

Hello everyone.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

Also, I think the concept of arranged marriage has evolved over time. We are now allowed to know each other before marriage. To be honest you can understand each other in 5 to 6 meetings. I don't know why people prefer the live-in concept, you can know most of the important things about each other if you talk openly in 5 to 6 meetings. I personally think that most love marriages are based on looks (as I have seen with most of my friends who are in love marriages. They themselves admitted that they mostly fall for looks at first. ).

That's why I believe arrange marriage is better than love marriage any day, as it is based on moral values compared to love marriage which is mostly based on looks.

In my opinion, love marriage is the best option for all. Because we know very well that girl. Her behavior, her nature, her good and bad habits. In a love marriage, anybody does not depend on dowry because the boy's family depends on him and he manages his family for that.

In an arranged marriage, the boy's family depends on the dowry and his family demands for dowry.

All we want from marriage is it doesn't have any expiry date. As we know in India, our custom is lifelong bonding between two person then it is a successful marriage. I can't choose one of them, both marriages are good. All we need in a marriage is better understanding between two persons then it's outcome will be definitely positive. So, it has nothing to do with love marriage or arrange marriage. There are many cases in. Which love marriage and arrange are successful and they are successful only because of better understanding between two people but if there won't be understanding then both marriages will be failure. Now coming to investigation of both the parties so it can be done in both cases as we you are doing love marriage then you must be knowing him/her from a long time and his/her parents too, if not then you should know about them fully, about their family values, education, occupation, religion, caste each and everything then only you should decide about marrying that person. Now investigating in arrange marriage can be done by asking from relatives, neighbors, common friends or dating before marriage, chats and knowing about likes, dislikes, morals, values, nature, occupation, education, everything about family then only you should think about marrying that person then its result will be positive. But as we know coin has two sides, so even after investigation of many years there can be something which we miss out or may be other side party hide something or lie about something then it may lead to failure. So a well known saying in Hindi is "The Fruit of marriage, the one who eats it shall suffer, the one who doesn\'t eat it shall also suffer". So we can conclude that chances of failure and good outcome have equality it depends on understanding and some adjustments.

According to me, arranged marriages are far better than love marriages. Because our parents are our only wellwishers even more than we are of ourselves and if others give us a reason to cry then just they give us a reason to smile so we must respect their decision first. We must marry and person they choose and later fall in love with that person. In arranged marriages, there is more understanding, love n less trust issues. :).

I strictily support Arranged marriages.

In most of the cases, it has proven that love marriages create lots of issues in their life. Love is just a kind of attraction between a girl and a boy, it looks beautiful when they are in the love but once if they won't listen to their parents words and start their life by getting married, problems will start, even misunderstandings also starts and the relations ship between them weakens and this will lead to breaking up of their marriage and their even parents don't have that much chance to talk with that people.

Arranged marriage is very good when compared to love marriage why because without knowing the details of person, family background our parents don't let us into that relationship. We can have a secured life, good relationship, family, and friends. They have very good understanding between each other, love in arranged marriages increases day by day whereas in love marriages it decreases gradually and even if any problems occur our parents are there to look after that in the arranged marriages.

I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.

It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.

Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.

Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision There is nothing wrong in love marriage. It's all about the mutal understanding.