Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Kuldeep Gupta said:   8 years ago
Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.

2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.

At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?
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Ranjan Gupta said:   8 years ago
Hello, friends, my name is Ranjan Gupta and here we are discussed about love marriages versus arrange marriages. In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriages. It's because of the only parents love. That means parents think about who is better for me and also an arrange marriage to focus on this family union. So by these reasons, it is a fact that about 90%Indian still have arranged marriages.

Nowadays we are seeing so many love failure problem. As an example In the Bollywood the famous couple "Malaika Arora - Arbaz Khan", The famous couple who is an actor, director as well as a singer "Farhan Akthar-Adhuna Akthar", Hrithik Roshan -Sussanne Khan, Aamir Khan -Reena Khan. So in my opinion, best is arranged marriages.
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Anom said:   8 years ago
Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage before getting married the 2 can understand their hearts.
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Dev pandey said:   8 years ago
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage is batter than love marriage.

Because love marriage is totally based on physical attraction and beauty.

When time passed physical beauty abridge and our love is finish.

In arrange marriage we marry such a person who is chosen by our parent. Our parents have much understanding of life so they choose for us best.
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Rai said:   7 years ago
In my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because before marraige in love no commitments and no more argues both thinking are we are true lovers and we can solve anything in our life problems but after marraige in loved both are initial stage very happy and life goes to heaven but some year passed they have trouble in life snd so much of worries. So arrange marraige is better.
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Akash Raj Verma said:   7 years ago
Hi friends.

According to me, arrange marriage is more beneficial than the love marriage because nowadays both are become a very similar thing whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage etc.

If I would talk about this generation somehow our parents begin to understand our feeling what we really want in future husband/wife, so that is very nice to us.

They finding a people according to us even they allow to meet them and and left some time to understand them, officially they meet numbers of time throughout the day since they know themselves for the first time, till the marriage, eventually they fully understand each other and finally they have fallen in love and got married to each other so far as my thinking its best way to getting arrange marriage despite given pain and hurt (love marriage) to anyone especially parent.
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Neha sharma said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, As I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because in love marriage we choose partners yourself even then we had spent lots of time with each other before the marriage so we both knew about his/her likes, dislikes & behaviour.

If we talk about arrange marriage. We don't choose our life partners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why I prefer love marriage.

Therefore love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.
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Mayur kathane said:   6 years ago
Hello friends!

In my point of view, love and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding between the couple who are getting married. But in arrange marriage, both people can understand each other after marriage and in love marriage, already the person knew each other and came in a relationship after understanding.

So in my point of view love marriage overcome the arrange marriage.
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Pallavi Rajput said:   6 years ago
Marriage means commitment of two peoples to one another legally and mutually understandably. Success of Marriage depends upon the partners whether its love or arrange. According to me, arrange marriage is very much depends upon luck because in arrange we don't know about the partner properly. In India, many places favors only arrange marriages and also creates many problems if couple wants to do love marriage. In 21st century, India still does not accept love marriage completely.
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Anupam kumari said:   4 years ago
Good evening all.

I am Anupam kumari and I am expressing my view on a given topic.

The topic is love marriage vs arrange marriage. Marriage means you are getting marrry with a person either he or she. So it didn't matter either it love or arrange. According to me, I am a mother of a boy and my marriage is arranged but I support love marriage because in love marriage you know about that people will go to marry if you are going in arrange marriage lots of cheater are there and telling lie in taking for dowry. You don't kow about the people how he/ she is? How her/ his behavior, lots of problems facing after arrange marriage and you don't compromise then results will divorce. At recent time, lot of ladies are suffering from their laws misbehaviour. And difficulties increase day by day and one day they got sucide. So love marriage is much better than arrange marriage and it also reduce dowery and cast system. That's all about my opinion, thanks to all of you.
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