Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Sai velpuri said:   9 years ago
Sai: Hi friends. In my point of view, love marriage is the best one because they understand very well before the marriage. Particularly summing of two different religions it leads to unity in society. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. But in arrange marriage parents choose the bride/groom by seeing the appearance, wealth, job etc. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage we will be happy when we vanish our ego with soft nature. Yes particularly patience is very important in marriage life. Few members said arrange marriage can bond two families but love marriage can bond two religions or different castes.
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Chinni said:   9 years ago
In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.

All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
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Savej Saifi said:   8 years ago
According to me, both marriages are good but a person should manage with his partner. If a person do the love marriage then he follows the procedure of arrange marriage, means first love with your partner and spends the time at least one year. If the partner is suitable for you then convince your parent and do the love marriage.

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Vishu said:   7 years ago
Good evening everyone.

Today's topic is love v/s arrange marriage.

I think love marriage and arrange marriage both are good for people according to the situation. First of all, what is marriage?

Marriage the understanding everything between two people who are ready to give support to each other in every situation. Love marriage is that peoples know each other perfectly (likes, dislikes, Behaviour, thinking etc) but in arrange marriage people not know each other.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because people can easily understand each other and they don't face any problem to fit in society. While in arrange marriage people cannot easily understand the nature of our partner and not easily adjustable. So I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage when all your family members support you.

Thank you.
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Sachin Jain said:   9 years ago
I strictly support arrange marriages every aspect as both pros and cons.
So as arranged marriages have a legal and a assurance of being marriage due to our family as it is a supported by our family with full acceptance but in love marriages, there is no support and it leads to breakups and divorces which not only break 2 persons but also families. There is one saying that. LOVE IS BLIND so one is attracted physically but not mentally which later lead to creating a cut off between them.
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Rai said:   8 years ago
I think love marriages is good. Because before marriage they spent time with each other and they understand each other. Then they take the decision to marriage.

And if you want to spend your whole life with everyone firstly you have to understand Him/her.
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Subhajit Podder said:   8 years ago
Good morning my dear all friend.

Here topic is love marriage and arrange marriage, which is good. It's thought to me that love marriage is very much better than arrange. Because maximum people tell that 70% or above love marriage has been destroying for any reason. I am telling that it's true. But we should think why it is happening. There are some problem who takes love marriage in their life. Actually problem is that unfortunately maximum people can't know what is meaning of love. How to care both each other. How to respect think of both person or etc. This is the problem. That's why love marriage cannot continue. If we think for a time to the earlier era I mean earlier person then can understand who accepted love marriage in their life and they could continue. Because they knew how to love. Here I am indicating the point that in our time we have been forgetting what is the love. That's way the problem is creating to the young person. Except that here are second problem. That is before maturity a boy or girl have been so much involving with love. For a result they are facing may problem. So for these type problem love has been destroying and divorcing. If we think it logically that love helps us to know each other before marriage which is not possible if anybody go to arrange marriage. So, end of discussion in a nutshell I must say that love is not wrong before marriage. We have to understand the problem and compare. Then we can solve the problem. So according to my views, love should be kept to the last point. That's all. Thank you.
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Nicky said:   6 years ago
Hello friends,

In my opinion, it doesn't matter the marriage is loved or arranged. The important thing is it should be based on friendship and trust. Where both partners feel comfortable with each other to share their stories and thoughts freely. Because in arrange marriage both partners are afraid of families and their reputation in society. They never show they're true identities, their past stories. Everyone wants to be like a perfect husband or a perfect wife. They never know each other that much closed as a friend knows. The clarity in any relationship is essential. It makes the bond stronger. We trust more. So take your time to marry anyone. 1st be friends. Know each other well then decide this marriage will happen or not. And be acceptable if someone has a dreadful past memory. Everyone learns from experience. Don't be judgemental. Anything can change.

Thanks.
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Rajdeep kumar said:   3 years ago
Hello everyone.

My name is Rajdeep Kumar.

Today going to discuss Love marriage vs Arranged marriage.

What is marriage? Marriage is a lifelong commitment between two partners and also two families.

In my opinion, both marriages have equal importance.

Advantages of love marriage.

1. They know very well each other.
2. In a love marriage one already knows one's partner like dislike and all about him.
3. Love marriage is the better way to end casteism.
4. They respect each other.
5. If sometimes, later anything happens then they don't blame their families because they choose each other.

Arranged marriage:

1. Our parents found a life partner as you know no one parents think bad about own's children.

2. Both families being strong relationships because of marriage.

Conclusion:- in my opinion both marriage has equal importance, marriage is a combination of two families and two soul mate, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner. And they forget some small mistakes and they help each other both are good if the couple has love respect and believe in each other.

Thank you, everyone.
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Vinu said:   6 years ago
Marriage is very imp aspect in every human life. But love marriage is good because we agree with the parents otherwise suffering from some problems in future. But the things are very imp for both of the pairs.

1. Love and affection.
2. Believe.
3. Caring for each other.
4. Mutual understanding.
5. Respect each other.
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