Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Keerthana said:   6 years ago
In my point of view,

Whether love marriage or arranged marriage whatever it is depends on partners only. If their understanding and supporting is good nothing will come between them.
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VIGNESWARI A said:   9 years ago
Hi guys.

According to me, love marriage is THE BEST. How can you marry an unknown person & live together? Parents prefer a boy or girl by their appearance, education, job, wealth etc. My question is what about the understanding between a boy & the girl who are going to be coupled? The word BETTER HALF best suits for love marriage couples. In most arranged marriage cases couples can be happy but can be better half to each other. There is an important point everyone says as a positive thing in arrange marriage is that after marriage parents can solve the couple's problems but when you seek your parents to solve your misunderstandings rather solving among yourselves then it seems that you are not matured enough to get married. Transformation of true love into marriage is what called HEAVEN.

Hence, I strongly support love marriage.
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Namdev said:   8 years ago
Hello everyone.

According to my point of view,

Arrange marriage is best for maintain relation ship both. Arrange marriage are also permit by our parents I think parents plays best role in our life then why we avoid thinking about marriage. If they will agree love marriage then no problem but your parent are ignore for love marriage and you are doing love marriage it's not good for breaking hearts of our parents. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both. I think many when doing love marriage that women don't want and like his mother-in-law and fatherinlaw she want to live in single and different then the start problem breaking heart of parents.
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Sujeet vishwakarma said:   8 years ago
Hello, guys,

I am Sujeet.

From my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we don't know each other. Which is so exciting. And it gives a chance to know that person how is that?And after that before getting marriage both are very excited and nervous but that thing converts into love. But in love marriage, nothing to know anything. And after some times they become bored because they already know well their lack ness and quality.

Further love marriage becomes bored.
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SHIWANI said:   8 years ago
I am in support of love marriage. We are mature enough to take the decision what is good for us. We are to live with that person not our family so this decision should be taken by us. Love marriage is decreasing the customs in India previosly there was lot of customs in India like child marriage, dowry.

In love marriage you love the person by their heart not by face but in arrange marriage they jaudge you by your physical appearance.

Most of the people have wrong assumption about love marriage that it will get bored after marriage and then in this way so many misunderstanding will take place. It's wrong if you have better understanding that it won't Be happen in marriage.
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Momatha said:   9 years ago
Hi.

So many different views about marriage. I agree that parents are our life. They brought us to this world. They fulfill all our needs. Their unconditional love is very great. When it comes to love between a guy and a girl, they fall in love, understands each other, (both must make sure its not attraction. . But you both are building d foundation for life). Also both must be ready to convince your parents if you really want your pure and true love to continue for lifetime. At times, it so happens that you. Both are so emotionaly. Attached that you jus can't even think of another guy/girl in your life. So at least now you realise its not ATTRACTION but its a deep AFFECTION and BOND.

So be bold too. Convince your parents. Love happens only once. Make that love for your lifetime and your life will be meaningful. Love your parents and also love your LOVE.
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Varsha said:   9 years ago
According to me, arrange marriage is better than the love marriage because of many reasons it is supported by the family and also society, I live in rural area so I know very well about the mindset of the rural people.

So these people not accept the love marriage.
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Bhupesh Kumar said:   8 years ago
Hi friends,

I am in favour of love marriage but it doesn't mean that I am against of arrange marriage. I love it too. I would like to say as people have already mentioned above that we must have a mutual understanding. We must have faith and respect for each other, it is either love marriage or marriage. Yes, it's true that we should not go against our parents but sorry to say, friends, no doubt our parents always think for our better future but it doesn't mean that every decision which was taken by them will be good for our future. Maybe this time they are wrong. Now, we are mature, we have an ability to think if we can choose a better partner for our future then why not we should? But first, you must be honest opposite your partner. Never try to cheat her/him. Hope, by the grace of God you will find a good partner for your future and will enjoy for the whole life.

Thank you.
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Bhanusree said:   8 years ago
We can't say that love marriage is good or bad and arrange marriage is good or bad. It's only depends on couples who were going to lead their life with partnership. Love or arrange marriage anything it may be understanding is the main thing and have to be very confident in their relationship.
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Pritam g said:   7 years ago
According to me, love Marriage and arrange marriage both are equally depend on the understanding I don't know more about on both matter but recently I saw two couples married with love relationship and I shocked no one understands to each other no any bounding in both couple who always beating and diputing to each other and both have equally ego and no one can hear the word of each other. No family members are involved in the husband wife matter because it was the love Marriage. So we can say that if you want to take support of year family fast of all you have to do the arrange Marriage. It is not only arrange Marriage it is mutual combination of two families.
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