Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Israt said:   7 years ago
According to me, love is God gifted, it's doesn't matter you got love marriage or arrange marriage, in every marriage life love is essential, it does not fact you love someone before or after marriage fact is how much you love him/her, how much you sharing and caring.
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U.rajasekhar said:   7 years ago
Hi, friends,

In My point of view about the love marriage vs arrange marriage:.

In love marriage, both people will understand their situations family problems. Before marriage, they share their feelings and situations.

And Nowadays these love marriages take negative directions. In love stage there are comparative and matured, after marriage, they have hurt the small things also. Most of the love marriages are divorced in today's world.

Arranged marriages:

In arranged marriages, both peoples are not knowing anything about our better halves. This condition takes problems in marriage life. The couples will hurt for the small things. In arranged marriages, couples are cooperative of their family responsibilities and family importance in their life.

My conclusion is both are important but our respect towards the marriage culture is important. In marriage day you promise so many things but you don't fallow such things. So both should follow their responsibilities in the marriage life.
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Gurpreet sran said:   7 years ago
I think arrange marriage is good, Because in arrange marriage we get a lot of support and blessings from our parents, relatives and also our society. Think about your parents' reputation before taking a step because they are like God for us.
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Ashish Singh said:   4 years ago
In my opinion, we should do love marriage, because we do the marriage for our choice, and in an arranged marriage, we don't know about that person who gets married to us, we have to live the life with that unknown person we don't know about them anything, so it's better we do the arrange marriage but if you want to do the arrange marriage so you should do with the permission of your family and relative.
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Nilam said:   4 years ago
In my opinion, arrange marriage is best for compare love marriage because in arrangement marriage parents arrange marriage and Parents choice is a good choice for our future they were more knowledgeable compare to ours. So, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Vishnupriya said:   9 years ago
Arranged marriage is better. Because if we get any problems after marriage. Parents will support us.
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Indian said:   9 years ago
We are blindly following the western culture physical attractions, love affair before marriage is the main reason behind the increasing divorce cases in India.

Some stupid are telling we are modern generation we will do LOVE marriage. If this keeps happening no one believes in marriage. This thing already happening, people are afraid to get married, because of false dowry harassment cases/ Love affair after marriage.

Follow your own culture. Do not destroy Indian culture due to western culture (physical attractions/love affairs).
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Shilpa said:   9 years ago
According to my own opinion love marriage and arrange marriage both are equal but the only thing is that our partner should be a good person. We should keep trust, mutual understanding, bonding.
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Sruthi sree said:   9 years ago
Hi friends,

ARRANGED MARRIAGE.

-- Arranged marriages are better than love marriages.
-- In arranged married life they have some understanding between them.
-- In olden Days the parents are sitting together and they talk each other family background.
-- For suppose the couple have any problem they met their parents and solve their problems and lead their life happily.
-- Before their marriage, they know the partners likes, dislikes.
-- And they have mutual understanding between them.

LOVE MARRIAGE.

-- In love marriage, there are so many problems.
-- They don't know whether they are doing right or wrong.
-- In that age, they felt that is love but actually that is a infatuation.
-- At that time what ever they are doing is right but not.
-- They are married but after some days going on, they face some problems.
-- At that, they are alone no coordinating between them.

CONCLUSION.

-- Many problems are in both married life. At last, I believe that arranged marriages lead more role from olden days onwards.
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Chandan kumar said:   9 years ago
Hi friends.

I am Chandan Kumar.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage couples become friends first then gradually their friendship changes into love. In that journey they know each other better and also know about their likes and dislikes. That's way they form a hard bond which can't be broken easily.
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