Marriage is a social trap

According to me marriage is not a social trap, it is social bonding between two family and their culture. If person is unable adapt these things, it become social trap for them. So marriage is not social trap our understanding make it. So it up to us how we look after it make a balance with it. I believe that if we are able to make a proper between the family it is world wonderful thing because it will stay with you till your death.

In my view point marriage is not a social trap because of both bride and groom wants privacy and they are also enjoying their life with love and commitment. In present era parents of both bride and groom are giving total privacy so that they are making as a good relation.

But when I look at poor and illiterate societies, due to their more importance to rituals and rigid customs, couple feel that they have been trapped in the name of marriage. They really want to end their marriage, but due to family pressures, they live entire life with sense of deception. In such case, marriage is really a social trap.

Yes I do think that marriage is a social trap. I do feel this because I have seen the people.

Those don't like each other and they are living together for the sack of marriage. I not pessimistic about marriage, I my self a part of big family but what I do feel that most are people living together just for their children and marriage.

They don't really love to each other and they are living with each other for the years, it's ugly to be someone as a husband as a wife if you don't love him or her, for example if you have to be with your classmate for the 5 days with whom you don't like to share your time, it will be just a hell and according to me lot of people are in that hell just because of marriage.

In my point of view, marriage is not a social trap because it is a relationship of between two families. It is very helpful to society also. In society we get new relationships and new friends etc and it is very helpful to human beings also. Everyone want a support to their life so we need to marry.

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There are two groups of people in this world. The person belonging to the first one decides to stay independent for most of their lives or throughout their lives. The second group consists of four types of people, one who consciously decide to spend the rest of their life with the person they love and they live happily throughout their life, another one who marries his/her loved one but their relationship start to become sour because of misunderstandings and then they break up, another person is forced by the society or their family to marry an unknown person and asked to adjust or compromise if things don't go right, the fourth person is lucky to have an arrange marriage with a person whom they start liking later on after spending considerable amount of time together.

In my opinion, marriage is not a trap but rather a choice. No other person should decide with whom you should spend the rest of your life. One should not crumble under society's or family's pressure or else he or she might regret it for the rest of the life or have to undergo pains of filing a divorce. If marriage is a trap, it would take a very stupid person to go near it.

In my point of view, marriage depends on individual opinion. Everyone has an identical thought some of them think that marriage is a social trap just because they want their life to live as single with no responsibility and enjoy their life as her/his own way. Marriage is not a trap when the two of ppl has a mutual understanding to live with love and care thus creates person to more responsibility in a society. When the person is not get married the society will sea the person as either they think person doses do not have the attire to get married or the person is ignorant. Marriage only gives respect to the individual in a society.

Hello everyone,

I an INDRAJIT SHAW.

Marriage means a mentally bonding between a man and woman. When a couple get married, they are promised together to take care of each together in any condition though the condition is bad or good. So, as my point of view, the bonding that create between them during marriage is always take their in life as a long way with each other.

But, another point of view, I will say that marriage is a big trap when a woman or a man forced to marry by their family members without their permission. So, after marriage one of them or both feel that he/ she is trapped between this relationship, called marriage. So, everyone has right to choice his life partner. If it is being forceful then the marriage is being to a trap for them.

Who say marriage is a social trap I totally disagree. Marriage is a very necessary part of society but as coin have two side now days marriage also have two side 1-posive side 2-negative side. Positive side as everybody know marriage help to make bond between two families, between two person. But there some cons come in it like Dowry. It is biggest curse for our society. Due to this daily the dream of many brides break. They commit to suicide, divorce became common in society. So I just want to say marriage is not a trap. Its cons make it trap.

Hello everybody,

Marriage in fact is not a social trap, but it is a social protection to a girl to live in the society. Now a days, it is so difficult to live alone for a girl, even though the confidence and the boldness allows her to live, there is a time where everything fails in one or the other situation.

Marriage is also a safer zone for guys. If taken up with true understanding without any egos, complexes etc. Marriage as said by our ancestors, are made in heaven which continues to live in earth.

Marriage is not a social trap because everyone is fond of a partner for life. Its very hard to spend life without a partner but there are certain cases it seems to be social trap girls of our society especially are targeted to get married even they have not achieved puberty. Especially our elders they have the vision to get there family daughters to marry as soon as possible I agree marriage is a pure relationship.

But we should not target innocent souls to be in a circle of such big responsibilities as marriage when they don't know what it is all about.