Marriage is a social trap

According to me it's really not a social trap it's all depend on how we are going to take and lead. If family getting along well in relationship obviously concurrent soulmate of respective family perhaps the same on each other. Marriage is lifetime event which decide the rest of life to lead in peaceful way by getting right partner.

Don't crap by saying it as trap it is heavenly matching made by our experienced folk. As we are much younger than our parents in experience as well as in age it is hard to decide in marriage matters. Now a days love marriage are not as long lasting relationship as arrange marriage.

According to me marriage is not a social trap. It depends on the person as to whether he|she takes marriage as a trap.

In my view sometime marriage is a social trap. Ya, it's totally depend on people. There should be some social rule. That without taken permission from bride & groom no one can tie them. After 18 many of family want to marry their child as soon as possible. It is not good.

They didn't think about their child future. They think if our daughter getting married soon, They (family) are free from a big responsibility. We need change this type of thinking.

Hi friends,

After read a lot of component on this topic its a ridiculous if anyone say marriage is a social trap.

I totally oppose it. How marriage can be a social trap? However there is a lot of misunderstanding in marriage life, but its does not mean that its a trap. Marriage is a just a new life of any individual, it comes with lot of desires, happiness, emotions.

On the other hand if we see the cons of marriage life, there is some cumbersome also which is just due to lack of comparability, understanding, patience.

I think marriage will be a social trap if partners are towards each other. Otherwise things change when the partners feel that they must abide by some social rules as has been maintained by their elders.

If the partners want their marriage to be a personal affair then social etiquette need not be maintained and things would not turn out to be a social trap. Many would scorn at them. But they are stand up for each other and are strong themselves. So all social scorns turns into mere dust.

However if the partners feel that they must take their marriage to that social level then things really change and that results into social trap for both the partners.

Yes, I am agreed with @Rocky as he said that we are treasure of our family. We are today because our parents got married. It's not matter if they have disturbance for taking some reasons for a moment but after sometime it gets become settle. Our parents be happy by seeing us because they got us after marriage.

After marriage we share our problems, emotions, difficulties, trouble and future responsibilities. If we don't marriage, we cannot get anything. But, partner should be true. If your partner is not loyal, you will get ruined.

The people imagine this as a curse and it is if your partner is disloyal. In my opinion we should marriage after choosing a true partner.

Marriage is not a social trap because everyone is fond of a partner for life. Its very hard to spend life without a partner but there are certain cases it seems to be social trap girls of our society especially are targeted to get married even they have not achieved puberty. Especially our elders they have the vision to get there family daughters to marry as soon as possible I agree marriage is a pure relationship.

But we should not target innocent souls to be in a circle of such big responsibilities as marriage when they don't know what it is all about.

Hello everyone,

In my point of view, no one thinks that marriage is a social trap. As we all know that there is a saying that "marriages are made in heaven". In reality, marriage is a personal commitment, relationship and bonding between two people. But of course, it is the responsibility of a woman to build her family in such a way that she makes that family in a unique way and it is also the responsibility of a man who takes his family to a stage from where it looks like an ideal one throughout the society. So, I think that marriage makes our life memorable and beautiful if no one forces to one's interest.

Definitely marriage is not a social trap. Because it's a connection between two in their hearts small small problems can rise in the life. But they are the part of the life. If there is no trouble in our life there won't be any understanding between a pair. Problems can change a persons life in a good manner as well as bad also.

People should get married only if they feel like getting married. They shouldn't do it as an obligation to society or their families. If he or she feels like to be with their partner for the rest of their life and wants to get married, then it wouldn't be a trap. But if they are doing it for the sake of others, traditions or societal pressure then of course it would be a social trap.