Marriage is a social trap

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Vikas bharti said:   9 years ago
I strongly disagree with marriage being considered as a social trap. Calling it a trap will be disrespect of this pious relationship which is seen with respect around the world. It is only done after mutual agreement between the two male and female. It is done in order to bring stability in life along with harmony. Living life alone is miserable, everyone loves company. And if your companion is your life partner then what is another good thing. It, on the other hand, provide you with more freedom by managing one part of your work and giving you extra time for yourself.
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Chandrasekhar Meruvu said:   9 years ago
Everything in this world has merits and demerits,

De-merits:

1) In most cases, Marriage is not a social trap, Its self-trap (Self-Decision).

2) Sometimes you feel like you miss your freedom.

3) Weekend parties with friends will not exist.

4) Before Marriage Life=Work Pressure, After Marriage Life=Work Pressure+Partner Pressure.

Merits:

1) There is a Saying that " Problems will Reduce by sharing" so we can share our problems with our partner.

2) Responsibilities will Increase, so Business people can experience dealing a different kind of situations.

3) Our mental Stress can also be removed by some activities. We can also get them without marriage, but they are not much safer.

Thanks.

Chandrasekhar.
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Soham Sen said:   9 years ago
There are two groups of people in this world. The person belonging to the first one decides to stay independent for most of their lives or throughout their lives. The second group consists of four types of people, one who consciously decide to spend the rest of their life with the person they love and they live happily throughout their life, another one who marries his/her loved one but their relationship start to become sour because of misunderstandings and then they break up, another person is forced by the society or their family to marry an unknown person and asked to adjust or compromise if things don't go right, the fourth person is lucky to have an arrange marriage with a person whom they start liking later on after spending considerable amount of time together.

In my opinion, marriage is not a trap but rather a choice. No other person should decide with whom you should spend the rest of your life. One should not crumble under society's or family's pressure or else he or she might regret it for the rest of the life or have to undergo pains of filing a divorce. If marriage is a trap, it would take a very stupid person to go near it.
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Priya said:   9 years ago
I think that marriage is not a social trap. It's a mutual decision of not only two individuals but of the two families. Though it is percieved as a social trap but is rather a beautiful phase in one's life. With marriage comes a lot of responsibilities as well as a lot of joys.
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Deepak said:   10 years ago
Marriage cannot be said as a social trap.

One has to marry to have a partner in their happiness as well as sorrows, to share success and failures. There is a huge difference between a house and a home, we all have heard that House becomes Home when a family settles in it.

We should remember that Even Adam wasn't sent alone Eve was also send by god. So All Adam's have their Eve, it's not a social trap, it only depends on after marriage how it works which gives the feeling of a trap if it's not successful.

Marriage is a law of nature, which cannot be judged as a trap.
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Hari said:   10 years ago
Marriage is not trapped. But it's always our choice whether to marry or not. There are so many singles in this world. Living as single is social stigma it's not great or worse just different way of life.
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Sonu said:   10 years ago
Hi friends.

I would like to tell about marriage life, then we will decide yet marriage is a social trap or not?

Every person wants to marry for sharing their feelings and problems. But sometimes peoples like only dowries, money etc.

Before marriage, we have freedom from parents, but after marriage, we do not have freedom to do anything. Because it affects our family life only if it is good or bad things.

In my point of view, if you are adjusting to your partner yet you will 100% success aid in your marriage life.

Let tell me, tell me marriage is a social trap?
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Patrick said:   10 years ago
In order to talk about marriage, people use to talk about marriage is that a marriage is like a sweet who takes would repent who does not take also repent, my point of view it's not a trap, getting a marriage is the best way to reduce your hardships.
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Sutapa mitra said:   10 years ago
Marriage are made in heavens. But sometimes it is not true what the sayings is all about. After marriage some complications may arise. Then it transforms into hellish conditions. But to be optimistic marriage is such a bond that connect two people and they protect the other one in each and every condition.
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Smruti said:   10 years ago
Hi, in my point of view marriage is not a social trap. Because god has already gifted us this things. It is the connection between two people, two souls, and two hearts. Marriage is such a powerful things it helps to the partner in each and every time. I think its completely wrong marriage is a social trap. It depends upon the persons how they will taken it.
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