Marriage is a social trap

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Deepak said:   9 years ago
Marriage cannot be said as a social trap.

One has to marry to have a partner in their happiness as well as sorrows, to share success and failures. There is a huge difference between a house and a home, we all have heard that House becomes Home when a family settles in it.

We should remember that Even Adam wasn't sent alone Eve was also send by god. So All Adam's have their Eve, it's not a social trap, it only depends on after marriage how it works which gives the feeling of a trap if it's not successful.

Marriage is a law of nature, which cannot be judged as a trap.
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Hari said:   9 years ago
Marriage is not trapped. But it's always our choice whether to marry or not. There are so many singles in this world. Living as single is social stigma it's not great or worse just different way of life.
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Sonu said:   10 years ago
Hi friends.

I would like to tell about marriage life, then we will decide yet marriage is a social trap or not?

Every person wants to marry for sharing their feelings and problems. But sometimes peoples like only dowries, money etc.

Before marriage, we have freedom from parents, but after marriage, we do not have freedom to do anything. Because it affects our family life only if it is good or bad things.

In my point of view, if you are adjusting to your partner yet you will 100% success aid in your marriage life.

Let tell me, tell me marriage is a social trap?
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Patrick said:   10 years ago
In order to talk about marriage, people use to talk about marriage is that a marriage is like a sweet who takes would repent who does not take also repent, my point of view it's not a trap, getting a marriage is the best way to reduce your hardships.
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Sutapa mitra said:   10 years ago
Marriage are made in heavens. But sometimes it is not true what the sayings is all about. After marriage some complications may arise. Then it transforms into hellish conditions. But to be optimistic marriage is such a bond that connect two people and they protect the other one in each and every condition.
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Smruti said:   10 years ago
Hi, in my point of view marriage is not a social trap. Because god has already gifted us this things. It is the connection between two people, two souls, and two hearts. Marriage is such a powerful things it helps to the partner in each and every time. I think its completely wrong marriage is a social trap. It depends upon the persons how they will taken it.
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Renuka baby said:   10 years ago
According to my point of view, marriage is two souls are combine. So husband respect wife's ideas and wife also do that. Because every one had a their own ideas and own interest whether love or arrange don't bother about that love is important in that relationship.
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Preet said:   10 years ago
Marriage is a bond between two soul, to get married is a symbol of love for those who really loves each other. But there are some marriages having no love, they only does compromise then it is called as trap. Marriage is not trap but it become trap when we make it worst by misunderstanding.

During marriage two family are come to the bond. Marriage helps 2 know about our responsibilities towards family and society. If he/she is comfortable with their partner then they should get married. And think positive about your relation rather than just thinking of it as marriage is a social trap.
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Mounikareddy said:   10 years ago
Hi friends.

In my point of view marriage is not at all a social that all depends on the way we think. In our olden days they respect to the marriages and they were bound to that relation ship they respect more than us. When one got married they both have to respect their ideas and views. In some families wife dominates husband some case reverse then then the problem raises among them.
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Yash Jain, said:   10 years ago
Hello everyone,

Getting married or not is totally a personal decision, if two persons wants to spend their rest of life together and want to get tied in a bond in front of the society then marriage is a great option. Also because of different situations in life one gets diverted and take wrong decisions for e.g. due to a dispute a person starts thinking of breaking up with that person, however this is a decision of running away from a situation, marriage is a bond that reminds the person of the responsibility they have towards each other specially in the difficult situations in life.

Also marriage keeps a person focused and not get involved with any other person due to distractions like money, sex, physical beauty etc. a marriage also creates a legal relationship in front of the government and helps persons being together will being together with someone.

Still, to marry or not is totally a personal decision and one should only marry when he/she is sure of accepting the person and spending rest of their life together. And in case they come to realise that situations become worse and there in no sense in being together, then they can go always go for a divorce too.
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