Marriage is a social trap

Hai buddies!

As far as I am concerned, marriage is a most beautiful, fragile and precious bond that a person ever come across in his/her lifetime. This journey is totally rely in belief. It is the basic ingredient for the successful life. For example, I made a dish, I feel it as mouthwatering dish and tasted it. Here I have three cases.

1. If all the ingredients, masalastuff, food color, its aroma everything mix up in equal proportions, then I say it as delicious dish.

2. If at least one went wrong, I can adjust it somehow by managing.

3. If none of them mix, then I can't taste, I get raged over me for making such a dirty dish.

So this example reflects marriage life-it's all depends on the couple who involved in the bond.

1. If they understand each other, shares their unpleasantly besides ecstatic moments, care for each other. All these make them a lovely pair, most adorable parents to their kids.

2. If at least one case fails, they have to overcome it by spending some time for each other in their busy schedule. They should not let burdens to settle on their happiness.

3. If mutual understanding is not there, it leads to initially anger, then fight, at last world war.

So should not let the marriage a "trap" rather a "tray" with full of love, affection, believing each other, adjustable to situation and finally.

DON'T LET THE EGO TO STAY IN YOUR HEARTS AND JUST LET 'E' TO 'GO'.

According to my point of view marriage is not a social trap we can say that it is just like salt. We can feel the absence of salt but can't feel the presents of salt. We need a life partner when we want to share our feelings, happiness, ideas, thinking etc. It is not bonding of just two person only but it is bonding of the two family, two cast, two different culture. In the world each and every person think that someone will become in their life and to hold his/her hand forever and some one make feels that how they are special for his/her and also making their life beautiful.

According to me sometime, marriage is a social trap, now a days people are getting married just for status, show off. Resulting divorce, mostly it affects the psychology of their descendant badly. Hence, it is polluting the society. Since children are the future of the country, if they get affected, then its affecting the development of the country.

Hello everyone,

In my point of view, no one thinks that marriage is a social trap. As we all know that there is a saying that "MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN". In reality, marriage is a personal commitment, relationship and bonding between two people. But of course, it is the responsibility of a woman to build her family in such a way that she makes that family in a unique way and it is also the responsibility of a man who takes his family to a stage from where it looks like an ideal one throughout the society. SO, I THINK THAT MARRIAGE MAKES OUR LIFE MEMORABLE AND BEAUTIFUL IF NO ONE FORCES TO ONE'S INTEREST.

According to my view, Marriage is not a social trap because it makes any person's life happy by making some new relations to the other family. It brings love, responsibilities and care in one's life. To spend whole of the life alone, without life-partner is very tough and scary. And also as we belong to Indian culture, Marriage is one of the most important cultural process which should happen once in everyone's life. Its a part of the life.

According to me, Marriage is not social trap, because marriage is a heartfelt bonding between two persons. It is a bonding & understanding between two persons, also their is a caring among them. In any situation one can understands the his/her feelings & thinking.

In short, I want to say that marriage is not at all a social trap. It is a always our personal decision.

I don't think that marriages in Indian culture is a social trap at all, because we can't imagine our existence without this beautiful relationship which is not just a relationship but also a social responsibility after all. Which gives us the family, the society, the people around us the social environment in which we enjoy our life.

Marriage is not a social trap rather It is a beautiful relationship between two souls, two families. No one is self-sufficient unless he/she becomes saint and leaves the social life. One needs support from his partner many times in life, no one else can give it. So it's a unique relationship. Some deepest feeling and emotions can be shared only with a partner, not even with parents.

It's a good part of it that it abide by law. I think it is necessary to abide by law. Otherwise more we'll have more cases of divorce. One takes responsibility to be with his/her partner in every ups downs of life in presence of family. If any does fraud that he/she can be penalized by laws.

Human is a social animal, until he lives socially he needs to have partner who remains with her lifelong, emotionally, physically, spiritually.

Yes I'm agree marriage is a social trap, its my personal experience because of marriage my career stopped I was a successful engineer in an MNC and before marriage everything was discussed that I will not quite my job in any condition but now these people get changed in forced me to quite my job emotionally and sometimes forcefully. And now there is no hope even my hubby too resigned for gov exams preparation and still his preparation is going on.

What should I do?

Marriage is not a social trap, it made by us as a trap we prefer that woman should operate on man's command. She also have feelings, pride and self respect. People oppose dowry but they take it, frankly dowry is like gum which stick on our hair and never gonna removed so forget about this. But both the partner should care each other, believe in each other but also take care about giving some space to breath to get touch with himself or herself.

Woman also take care of her husband my practical experience said that now days girl work under her own mothers command and try to separate man from things which he love (its my practical experience what I am seeing right now) so girl need to understand the feeling of men and same thing apply for man. Marriage is pious bond not be based on compromise, if you live your life with love its become best thing. Woman is not slave she can do anything what she wanted and husband should support this if its right.