Marriage is a social trap

Hi all,

Marriage is a holy custom in India. We should marry at some point in time in our life to make our life circle a complete one. But sometimes we see that people think that after their marriage they will be puppets in the hands of their wife and vice-versa. But it depends on the mentality of your partner whether you will be able to spent your life freely or not. Very often we can see that after marriage the life gets changed and we become more responsible.

If we have a good understanding then nothing can trap us not even the society. And if you talk about privacy then a good husband must not disturb the privacy of his wife and that creates a good mental bonding. On the other hand also an ideal wife will also not try to destroy his husband's privacy. So we must not say that marriage is a social trap. If somehow you are trapped after your marriage then it is your individual problem not the problem of this holy institution called "Marriage".

Marriage is not at all a social trap. We find the greatness of marriage when we are in a very hard situation, the time when only our life partner will stay with us sharing our hard work when other people including our children try to escape. Every relation in our life will go away from us one or the other day but only life partner will stay with us till our death expecting only love from us. So I thank our ancestors for bonding us in a thing like marriage providing us a person who lives or stays with us whole life.

In my opinion marriage is a social trap because there is lots of restrictions are imposed on bride. Her own life come to an end. Now she has to live for that family which is new her. She has to adjust with a new family. It become like trap for her. Since in laws family do not want to adjust according to bride. And those who says it is not a trap can become bride and experience the situation. Why only girl will adjust why not her husband and his family?

I think marriage is a social trap. Today majority people get married just because of status. If they don't get satisfied after marriage they find different partner. It just deludes society. There are many cases where people do adopt live in approach. It's not necessary to impose "MARRIAGE" on two souls. Society should think on it as time changes.

I think marriage might have been created only for reproduction.

It's just waste of time, money and energy.

We can't say that marriage is a social trap marriage is depands on persons and depands on our behavior. Marriage is not only bonding between two persons it also bonding between two family which should be handle by love, care and mutual understanding.

I agree that marriage is a social trap. It spoils the life of the both male and female. Why to marry and be economically and physically dependent on other. Its better to enjoy your freedom. Why to share it with anybody who even don't understand you ?

Marriage cannot be the social trap. Marriage is the social bonding and it unites the two individuals and also two family. If both the couple love and respect each and can live happily then there is no question of telling it a social trap. The confuses arises at that point of time when there is no understanding between them. So I just want to draw the attention that marriage is a social bondage and the people will decide whether they will make it a trap or a social bondage.

Its up to a person how he takes marriage. If he feel it is trap then it will remain trap for him forever. It is purely satisfying each others needs these are social, economic, physical, natural and so on. People exaggerate this subject and take it to different level.

Namaskar friends.

There is an ethically talk that marriages are made in heaven, After marriage, two souls, two minds are coordinate with each other. But it is strong enough by building faith, proper understanding, mutually preferable decision, dependable with each other i.e. a relation with supporting to extract the outside stress that may destroy the relation which becomes a trap. So marriage is not a trap but a bond which is generated by the support of family, self and society. It becomes strong when all agree to be do so.

So, in my point of view, marriage is not a trap,

Because marriage is a chariot, then it has two wheels one is husband and other is wife. The relation becomes strong when both have strong by the blessing of elders blessing and blessing of god.

Thanking you.

In my opinion, When we did not like whom we marry it will be a social trap otherwise it won't be. 25, 26 is apt age for girl's marriage. Never force anyone to get married. It becomes a very social trap. Men and women are equal but in practical, women are under men. It should change. Never force a girl to get marry in her little age. It will be a very bad thing.