Marriage is a social trap

Hello everyone.

In my opinion, marriage is a social contract. Because two different people come together through marriage and live forever. Here two different persons (male & female) represent or follow two different attitudes, thoughts and views. It gets acquired from society, family and friends. Each one of them creates a person who behaves in their life. Also, it was a part of society. And it was transferred those things to the next generation of them. Both mutually understand we can stay with each other, and both behave mutually agreeably to their life it reflected in their life. So Marriage is not a social trap. But also I am reminded that everything is two sides. In this case, it is that was included.

Yes, actually, marriage is a social trap, and in a country like India, it's a business. People are getting married for their image in society. So I think marriage should be banned as cause of marriage not only one but a no of life's are destroyed cause in a hurry People take decision of getting married and this generally don't allow the male and female to understand eachother and they just have kids and fight in front of them and it gets converted into divorce leading to destruction of not only 2 life but the life of their child. So, it's good to stay single and enjoy the company of good friends.

Greetings everyone,

Marriage is an unbreakable bond of trust and love that should never be equated to a trap, as a trap is a boundary within which one is confined and forced to accomplish tasks with multiple terms and conditions.

But, in the case of marriage, it totally depends on the partners and how they make the best out of it. And yes without any doubt it's true that society would keep an eye on and put undue pressure on the weds to narrate a story of an orthodox companionship and role-plays from both spouses.

Considering this they must provide an answer to that with a reflection of a relationship that gives a lot of optimism in each other's life and becomes a shoulder of rest and advice to one another rather than just being a tag to fit into societal norms.

That's all from my side, it's my view on the topic.

Thank you for listening.

Hey everyone!

In my perspective, marriage shouldn't be considered as a social trap at all. Marriage is a pious and saintly bond between two individuals.

On a macro level, it seems marriage is a burden. But the root cause of such awful thinking is a lack of understanding and trust in each other. The main pillars of any relationship is trust, respect, and understanding for each other.

Another cause of increasing failed marriages is the lustfulness amongst youth. Everyone is looking for extra-marital affairs in order to satiate their physical hunger. And this is true even for love marriages! The so-called love vanishes when lust comes into the picture.

However the same doesn't apply in the case of arranged marriages. In arranged marriages, if the choice of girl/boy is not fulfilled, then it sows the seeds of discord right from the beginning of marriage and they start to dislike each other and create animosity among them.

Last but not least, my point is that everyone needs moral support in life and everyone needs and deserves a life partner. Marriage is a very sanctimonious relationship. However, if the marriage is not working cordially, it's better to separate from each other.

In my point of view marriage is not a social trap.It is the greatest gift gifted by god to every person.Actually getting married is a fruitfull thing but in some cases because of certain reasons it's becoming a trap.Dowry,misunderstandings,hidings,not respetcting each other etc.,will lead the marriage into a trap.

Bonding up with new families,getting a partner for sharing our feelings,getting a liscence for giving birth for someone to enjoy this nature etc..will lead the marriage into a fruitful life..

Hi everyone,

I don't think marriage is a social trap for all individuals in society. It is for the people who want to achieve something great through work, something they are interested in, but not allowed to due to the pressure of their families or in-laws. Or due to the new responsibilities they are made responsible for.

If we have supportive families who allow us even after being married and help us through daily responsibilities marriage is nothing like a trap.

Thank you for giving me the opportunity.

Hai buddies!

As far as I am concerned, marriage is a most beautiful, fragile and precious bond that a person ever come across in his/her lifetime. This journey is totally rely in belief. It is the basic ingredient for the successful life. For example, I made a dish, I feel it as mouthwatering dish and tasted it. Here I have three cases.

1. If all the ingredients, masalastuff, food color, its aroma everything mix up in equal proportions, then I say it as delicious dish.

2. If at least one went wrong, I can adjust it somehow by managing.

3. If none of them mix, then I can't taste, I get raged over me for making such a dirty dish.

So this example reflects marriage life-it's all depends on the couple who involved in the bond.

1. If they understand each other, shares their unpleasantly besides ecstatic moments, care for each other. All these make them a lovely pair, most adorable parents to their kids.

2. If at least one case fails, they have to overcome it by spending some time for each other in their busy schedule. They should not let burdens to settle on their happiness.

3. If mutual understanding is not there, it leads to initially anger, then fight, at last world war.

So should not let the marriage a "trap" rather a "tray" with full of love, affection, believing each other, adjustable to situation and finally.

DON'T LET THE EGO TO STAY IN YOUR HEARTS AND JUST LET 'E' TO 'GO'.

I don't think that marriages in Indian culture is a social trap at all, because we can't imagine our existence without this beautiful relationship which is not just a relationship but also a social responsibility after all. Which gives us the family, the society, the people around us the social environment in which we enjoy our life.

Hi friends.

I would like to tell about marriage life, then we will decide yet marriage is a social trap or not?

Every person wants to marry for sharing their feelings and problems. But sometimes peoples like only dowries, money etc.

Before marriage, we have freedom from parents, but after marriage, we do not have freedom to do anything. Because it affects our family life only if it is good or bad things.

In my point of view, if you are adjusting to your partner yet you will 100% success aid in your marriage life.

Let tell me, tell me marriage is a social trap?

It depends on the way how each of us perceives marriage. Marriage teaches responsibility to a person. It is a traditional step where each of them takes oath to live together. But on the other side, yes It can also be a social trap because of the enormously increasing matrimony websites making this entirely commercial.