Marriage is a social trap

Marriage cannot be said as a social trap.

One has to marry to have a partner in their happiness as well as sorrows, to share success and failures. There is a huge difference between a house and a home, we all have heard that House becomes Home when a family settles in it.

We should remember that Even Adam wasn't sent alone Eve was also send by god. So All Adam's have their Eve, it's not a social trap, it only depends on after marriage how it works which gives the feeling of a trap if it's not successful.

Marriage is a law of nature, which cannot be judged as a trap.

I think that marriage is not a social trap. It's a mutual decision of not only two individuals but of the two families. Though it is percieved as a social trap but is rather a beautiful phase in one's life. With marriage comes a lot of responsibilities as well as a lot of joys.

There are two groups of people in this world. The person belonging to the first one decides to stay independent for most of their lives or throughout their lives. The second group consists of four types of people, one who consciously decide to spend the rest of their life with the person they love and they live happily throughout their life, another one who marries his/her loved one but their relationship start to become sour because of misunderstandings and then they break up, another person is forced by the society or their family to marry an unknown person and asked to adjust or compromise if things don't go right, the fourth person is lucky to have an arrange marriage with a person whom they start liking later on after spending considerable amount of time together.

In my opinion, marriage is not a trap but rather a choice. No other person should decide with whom you should spend the rest of your life. One should not crumble under society's or family's pressure or else he or she might regret it for the rest of the life or have to undergo pains of filing a divorce. If marriage is a trap, it would take a very stupid person to go near it.

Everything in this world has merits and demerits,

De-merits:

1) In most cases, Marriage is not a social trap, Its self-trap (Self-Decision).

2) Sometimes you feel like you miss your freedom.

3) Weekend parties with friends will not exist.

4) Before Marriage Life=Work Pressure, After Marriage Life=Work Pressure+Partner Pressure.

Merits:

1) There is a Saying that " Problems will Reduce by sharing" so we can share our problems with our partner.

2) Responsibilities will Increase, so Business people can experience dealing a different kind of situations.

3) Our mental Stress can also be removed by some activities. We can also get them without marriage, but they are not much safer.

Thanks.

Chandrasekhar.

I strongly disagree with marriage being considered as a social trap. Calling it a trap will be disrespect of this pious relationship which is seen with respect around the world. It is only done after mutual agreement between the two male and female. It is done in order to bring stability in life along with harmony. Living life alone is miserable, everyone loves company. And if your companion is your life partner then what is another good thing. It, on the other hand, provide you with more freedom by managing one part of your work and giving you extra time for yourself.

According to me Marriage is a binding and bonding more of love, trust and commitments towards each other less than stress, frustration and screwing up from the partners. There are many examples where marriage can become a social trap and life can become not less than hell but that also depends on a couple who are married as they should have the sense of understanding, faith, loyalty, trust, love and responsibility and even value and adore each other. But if any of them is not happy with each other or doesn't want to marry then it can become a social trap.

Hello, friends. In my opinion, marriage is a trap. Because after marriage your life totally changes, there are a number of things which you have to do which you NVR wanted to do. If we talk abut a boy, his life just becomes like a bridge because he always hangs b/w the parents and his wife. If we talk about the girl, her life also becomes like the fake world she is having two parents but no one treats her like a real daughter. But in short, I just wanna to say it's our society only which making this relation i.e. marriage as a trap for both boy and girl.

Calling marriage a social trap is a complete disrespect to our traditions & society. Today, marriage only happens with the mutual agreement. You choose your partner. It's a phase where you experience a whole new world. Love, passion, responsibility, a person to depend on. No one feels happy when they are lonely. Loneliness is sad, it's consuming. Having a partner to share all your happiness, your sorrows, your ups & downs is what helps you to get through the tough situations and enjoy this beautiful life. Marriage is one among the most beautiful things of this life as long as you remain committed, loyal & loving.

It depends on the way how each of us perceives marriage. Marriage teaches responsibility to a person. It is a traditional step where each of them takes oath to live together. But on the other side, yes It can also be a social trap because of the enormously increasing matrimony websites making this entirely commercial.

I agree with the quotes of Leonardo Da Vinci "Marriage is like putting your hand in a bag of snakes in the hope of getting an eel".