Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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P. Raja sekher said:   7 years ago
In My point of view, marriage is the best of our life.

When the couples are dealing with understanding our thought out life being love and affection and blessings of parents and family members and starting to happiness life of carrier.
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MOHAMMAD DANISH said:   8 years ago
First of all marriage is not a union of just two person just coming together of two families or two social networks who are more closely thab ever before. So while looking for a partner to their son/daughter, parents will first check the potential of bride/groom family background, socio-economic level, level of education n different values. If so, they feel that then can safely gat married n they can take care of as their parents.

But there are some drawbacks in arranged marriage, not much importance is given in such a marriage because the couple might not have some time/more time to get to know to each other's values, understanding, opinions. And many of them, who are about to get into arranged marriage seem strong sense to obligation and duty to their parents n to do otherwise they perceive of disrespect of their parents and betrayal to their parents n they are ready to get marriage while they know they are unhappy just so their family is happy.

But critics of arranged marriage would say that love in arranged marriage reaches to peak when couple have been about 5 years after.

So I reached at a conclusion that both type of marriage have their own ups n downs, there is no perfect formula for marriage to work its totally depent on our preference in which we feel a settlement.
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Saman said:   6 months ago
In my opinion, both marriages are good if our parents want to have an arranged marriage so we should get married by arrangements and if our parents are ready for a love marriage we should get it. When our parents are happy then we should also be happy in their happiness.
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June said:   11 months ago
Marriage is a big thing, I would say. Being in a love marriage involves love while arranged marriage is not. The only pro I can think of in arranged marriage is, that one does not have to look for or spend too much time finding someone to marry.

However, in my opinion, I still feel that one still needs love and knowing the person well for it to work.
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Anurag said:   4 months ago
Good evening friends.

The topic of love and arrange marriage is quite relevant in our society, where both systems co- exist. Love marriage allows individual to choose their life partner based on emotional understanding and shared values, which can lead to stronger comparability. On the other hand, arranged marriage are often backed by families, ensuring social and cultural alignment, and offering a strong support system.

Whether LOVE or Arrange a successful marriage depends on how well the two individual handle challenges, mutual respect, communication, adjust with each other and grow together. In fact in modern India is increasingly embracing LOVE-CUM-ARRANGED which brings the best of both world.
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Smitarani sahoo said:   3 months ago
Marriage is a big thing, it is like starting a new life.
So it is very important to know the person to whom you are getting married.
In my point of view, love marriage is a better option as we get to know the partner more deeply, understand each others feelings emotions, goals.
After all you have to live with that partner not with your family so it is really crucial to know each other before getting married.
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Sukanya said:   8 years ago
HI friends,

I'm Sukanya, both love and arrange marriages are having some failures. Love marriages are sometimes not perfect at the same time arrange marriages also very poor. Because, of their cooperation, relationship, sharing, adjustments, love and caring. Some times both are thinking bad. I support arrange marriages why so parents select right family and right decessions, some cases it's not correct. Love marriages are somewhat good but they are not able to do acceptance of parent decisions they do own decisions.

Thank you.
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Japhet duga said:   8 years ago
Marriage to me is a divine institutional fulfillment which creates an open recognition for a union between a man and woman or better put, you union between two admirers. Love, on the other hand, is a burning desire to affectionately share one's emotions with the desired opposite sex. Love commitment and selflessness in union. Therefore marriage based on love is a true fulfillment of human choice for a lifelong partner.
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Shivraj pawar said:   8 years ago
In Conclusion,

Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage, relationship will work only if both the partners are serious and honest in relationship for love. Life partner must selecting to their own hands or not by force. In India arrange marriage to taking time about understood to each other before arrange marriage.
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Shiraja said:   4 months ago
Hi, I am Shiraja.

My point of view would be I am not against love or arranged marriage because it all ends with marriage, the partner, compatibility, the green flag or reg flag whataver and more than this everyone has to end up in commitment with family and partner. So, basically I think love reperesent indenpendent your values, respect and also whome you chose. But in arrange for luxury, settled, two family loving each other thats all.

I prefer a love marriage.

Because I believe if the two person's soul is united this universe will fight for them to get married.
Being typically arranged is like getting settled and no masala.

Have a good day, guys.
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