Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

I won't say what is good and what is bad but for the ones who are in love they should prefer for love arranged marriage rather than hurting their parents and disrespecting them it's not necessary that the person who is he/she is in love with will be good they should have a perfect information about their partners rather than going with dem blindly if your parents are still not accepting then you should not leave the topic but try convincing dem who knows what changes their mind 2nd thing is about arrange marriage it's not true when your parents find your partner is good dey will 70% see their wealth and then they'll see what their nature is the point is see how is the person it's not necessary when your parents find a guy or girl is always good, even dey haven't met dem properly how can they suggest the child for the upcoming future? it's your life dude you have some rights go for love or arrange but see that your partner understands you trust you support you and there is a bright future together.

Hello everyone.

Nowadays love marriages become often, you can see it in anywhere. My opinion is love marriages are not false but without intimating to their parents so many couples are getting married and they were thinking that their parents are villain for their love. Arranged marriages are better compared to love marriages as because so many love marriages are not accepted by their parents. So start loving your wife after the arranged marriage.

I agree with my friend Raghu, most of the parents don't accept their marriage proposal because in girl's side they would expect that the boy should have a good job and home so that he would make their daughter throughout her life, whereas in boy's side they would expect some dowry or gift from the girl's side, if their parents don't fulfil this requirement, this results them called as villains.

It's your choice whether to marry a person with similar interests or opposite interests. I think love marriage is a better choice.

I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know that how is your partner in so far as you have to spend your whole life with your partner.

Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.

So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.

If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.

Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.

As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.

I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.

Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.

I think it is not the matter of arrange or love marriage, but is of the two persons involved in it and how they understand each other feelings and affection. If an individual put behind its social-economic ego and comparison and make a relationship happier than it does not matter either the marriage is love or arranged. An understanding person nurture their life after being married and manage their relationship far well in future.