Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Meghana said:
8 years ago
Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
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Satyendra kumar said:
8 years ago
As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.
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Veronica said:
8 years ago
I say that marriages are made in heaven only it's a love marriage or arranged if there is love, understanding, faith and bound then it's successful. And the other hand I agree on the viewer point of view. That in love marriage we know each other well and then get into a relationship Understand and then marry, nor to marry a person who is unknown and don't know anything about him or his fly so I feel choosing the person at right time for right choice to grow old with the person in sincere heart will have success.
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Sanjay said:
8 years ago
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.
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Gaurav Joshi said:
8 years ago
I think it is not the matter of arrange or love marriage, but is of the two persons involved in it and how they understand each other feelings and affection. If an individual put behind its social-economic ego and comparison and make a relationship happier than it does not matter either the marriage is love or arranged. An understanding person nurture their life after being married and manage their relationship far well in future.
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MONJIT said:
7 years ago
As per my opinion, its very contradictory to compare between love marriage and arrange marriage, although whatever it may be it should be at a mature level and without any force either in terms of your family as well as from your partner. Respecting both to whom you are going to stay for the rest and to whom you admire. If in some part of life you are going to lost this co-relation, in both senses both the marriage will fail. So taking decision maturely helped a person achieve his goal.
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Hariom Kaushik said:
7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is prefer to arrange marriage because in love marriage couples understand each other in long time but in arrange marriage couples understand each other in one meeting. So, I support love marriage. Thanks.
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ASWINI SURA said:
8 months ago
A very good morning to all.
In my point of view, in different perspectives the way of things is different. So both love marriages and arranged marriages impact their personal life at some particular times.
In love marriages the couple should understand it is somewhat easy to take any decisions or share their opinions it leads to a better life.
In arranged marriages, it takes more time to communicate or share opinions. There is more respect in between the couples so they lead some forcible life up to some extent.
Thank you!
In my point of view, in different perspectives the way of things is different. So both love marriages and arranged marriages impact their personal life at some particular times.
In love marriages the couple should understand it is somewhat easy to take any decisions or share their opinions it leads to a better life.
In arranged marriages, it takes more time to communicate or share opinions. There is more respect in between the couples so they lead some forcible life up to some extent.
Thank you!
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Theti said:
5 years ago
Marriage is just a legal, social contract. If a couple is truly understanding and loving of each other and wants to live together, there shouldn't have to be a legal obligation involved to do so. But unfortunately, that's not how our society has evolved.
Be it arranged or love marriage, people can grow apart.
In an arranged marriage, one is bound into a relationship with added familial obligations that may make it difficult to get out of. At least in love marriage, one has a good idea of what kind of partner they're with; their likes dislike and that they are compatible enough to enter into a marriage to begin with. But in an arranged marriage, the couple most likely doesn't know a lot about each other and they may end up with someone they're absolutely dissatisfied with either emotionally or physically but choose to remain in that marriage because of the family "arranged" nature of it, but it will eventually grow sour and break apart. No one involved in such a marriage can ever be happy!
The concepts of marriage and love and relationships have to be revisited by our society as a whole.
Be it arranged or love marriage, people can grow apart.
In an arranged marriage, one is bound into a relationship with added familial obligations that may make it difficult to get out of. At least in love marriage, one has a good idea of what kind of partner they're with; their likes dislike and that they are compatible enough to enter into a marriage to begin with. But in an arranged marriage, the couple most likely doesn't know a lot about each other and they may end up with someone they're absolutely dissatisfied with either emotionally or physically but choose to remain in that marriage because of the family "arranged" nature of it, but it will eventually grow sour and break apart. No one involved in such a marriage can ever be happy!
The concepts of marriage and love and relationships have to be revisited by our society as a whole.
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Khushboo Goyal said:
9 months ago
In my opinion, whether it be love or arranged marriage, both individuals need to understand each other's needs and should be respectful of each other's decisions. Only then can we say that marriage is worth it.
On the other hand, in a love marriage, there will be lots of expectations from your partner because you already know each other. On the contrary, in an arranged one, there will not be many expectations, which can lead to fewer arguments and complexity.
On the other hand, in a love marriage, there will be lots of expectations from your partner because you already know each other. On the contrary, in an arranged one, there will not be many expectations, which can lead to fewer arguments and complexity.
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