Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

According to me, Love marriage is far more better than Arrange marriage. Because in Love marriage one is allowed to choose his/her life partner. And the person is already known to us with whom we are going to spend our whole life. In my opinion Love marriage is better because couples can understand each other in Love marriage, they have good bonding with each other.

Hello everyone.

According to my point of view, Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing a partner are different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arranging marriages individuals prefer partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose a partner for marriage. Let's analyze which one of the two is better.

Love marriage:

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.

-Couple is responsible for its choice and the onus of the blame in the future lies on the couple only and nobody else.

-Couple is aware of each other likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.

-Couples can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.

-The culture of extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arrange marriage:

-Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families.

-Two families involved in arrange marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other.

-Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.

-Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in a love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.

At my point of view, love and arrange both marriages are good because it depends upon our life partner how they are co-operating with us, marriage is all about love, respect and believe. So we can't say which one is better from another one.

In my point of view, we can't decide which is right. In love marriage they people know each others but in arrange marriage they take more time to understand. If we get good partner in arrange then its OK, but here is very low possibility to get good and understandable partner. So I am in fever of love marriage 70% and arrange marriage 30%. Thank you.

In my point of view, so many love marriages are not successful in life without parents permission because arranged marriage is best.

Hi friends.

According to my point of view, in arrange marriages parents select husband for their daughter with their own measuring rods which may not suit a girl.

They considered the girls only a commodity to be handed over to the boy of their choice.

It an insult to the principle of the equality of sexes.

As I have seen the comments people are believing in both. Love and arrange.

Arrange marriage is best. I agree on this because parents are choosing for their child, yes obviously the best bride or best groom. But if you are loving someone then how come you will do a arrange marriage.

Don't you think that it is a foolishness? I know parents are making a good decision. But they have to understand this thing also. That their child is not a kid now. He or she may fall in love n he or she wants to marry as per choice. It's the 21st century. Boy and girl should be measured in same parameters. Then why only for a boy they looking a better girl. Why girl can't give their decision to their parents.

Seriously for you, your parents are choosing someone n then they will ask you to marry that guy. Why I'm not understanding. They only think of their respect in society n all about culture.

For me, I full support to love marriage but for that parents also accept this one. Because girls are not a commodity or a thing, that whom you want you can give it to them.

Love marriage is good, but only with parents blessings.

Hi friends, myself Teju Mahima.


According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage because we can understand the person feeling and also some many love marriage are successful in life with parents permission finally love is beautiful.

Hello, friend. I am Sachin and I am telling about the love marriage and arrange marriage in love marriage boy and girl are know very well each but on the other hand in arrange marriage boy and girl not know very well each other. Arrange marriage is the bonding of two family but arrange marriage is the bonding of two family. I think love marriage is best but also acceptable by parents in love marriage may be religion and family are sad but in arrange marriage both of family and religion are very happy.

Love marriage is equally successful if both families like each other and they mutually accept their children's decision.

There is nothing wrong in Love marriage. Its all about mutual understanding.