Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Shalu said:
9 years ago
I would say, if you have chosen your partner wisely, not blindly fallen in love with someone so that you can't see what are his or her intentions, then love marriage is good. Because you know your partner's expectations, you build that understanding which keeps your efforts high towards the partner. Loving someone and getting love in return means a lot. Then you just need to convince your parents. Love marriage is not a crime. I just don't get why parents react like it's a crime. If they love us, they should support us and fight with people who are against it instead of fighting with us for those people who only pulls your leg down, never appreciate you when you are going up.
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Moupriya Dev said:
9 years ago
First of all, marriage is not the conclusion of life. Love or Arrange a marriage is a lifetime commitment. Loving someone is not easy but staying in love with someone is more difficult. When you accept someone for who they are and go through every pain and still want to be with them then you should marry them.
When we talk about love marriage it is like loving a stranger. It's like trying to know someone every day and trying to explore their lives everyday. And the fear of losing one another is gone because there is family pressure too. To have a happy married life you have to stop judging others.
Falling in love and getting married or arranged marriage both has love but in different ways. So it's about loving someone imperfect perfectly.
Marriage is very special in itself, it is to keep. You have to make sacrifices without sacrificing urself.
Be strong enough to be able to make a good choice and to be able to live the commitment of marriage and to be able to build a relationship. And be the best spouse who chooses the same person every day.
When we talk about love marriage it is like loving a stranger. It's like trying to know someone every day and trying to explore their lives everyday. And the fear of losing one another is gone because there is family pressure too. To have a happy married life you have to stop judging others.
Falling in love and getting married or arranged marriage both has love but in different ways. So it's about loving someone imperfect perfectly.
Marriage is very special in itself, it is to keep. You have to make sacrifices without sacrificing urself.
Be strong enough to be able to make a good choice and to be able to live the commitment of marriage and to be able to build a relationship. And be the best spouse who chooses the same person every day.
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Puja said:
9 years ago
Puja.
I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.
I think both marriages are successful, because of their trust, understanding and compromise.
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Amit Rana said:
8 years ago
Love marriage.
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
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Pooja said:
8 years ago
Hi everyone.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
First of all, the meaning of marriage leads to understanding. And based on the people it will be ruled but both are equal right both have equal scores for me if partners will understand both the sides. It not an issue of love or arranged. You will be happy every time.
Thankyou.
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Aparna said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends.
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
Both marriages have pros and cons. Instead of debating which is better. Just find your unconditional love, your soulmate. Understanding love for each other is mandatory here. Once unconditional love has come inside her/him, no other external factors will degrade their bond.
No matter arranged or love marriage, Its just a beautiful thing called LOVE plays a significant role.
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Vasam ias said:
8 years ago
Hai frnds,
I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.
Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.
I support arranged marriages, because its time taking to each to know about each other, during that they try to impress, love, and respect. They don't fully the character of each, little bit hesitated to oppose. That too they are bonded devotionally. But in the case of love marriages, they knew each, they already loved and enjoyed the life. Chance neglect them because they knew about their partner.
Finally, I conclude that what ever it may be the marriage if you give respect to them and treat, change them as made for each other it holds the relation strong.
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Raja said:
8 years ago
Hello friend.
Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.
Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.
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Roshan pal said:
7 years ago
Hello friends, I am telling about love marriage, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because love marriage in the know of each other and I can tell her about things. You enjoy complete freedom in love marriage. You understand each other hobbies and choice so I would like to love marriage is better to arrange marriage.
Thank you.
Thank you.
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Preeti maurya said:
7 years ago
According to my perception, love marriage is better than arrange marriage couples are understanding and bonding very high they spend whole life to each other but in arrange marriage couples are not fully attached in soul and heart so we can differ easily love marriage is better.
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