Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Love marriage is good when a girl or boy select their partner with maturity. Here the maturity means real love and not the infatuation. Nowadays school students and teen agers are in love. But it does not last long. So, they can take a decision only when they are standing on their own leg. While they love they should accept both the negative and the positive qualities of the partner which helps in avoiding the future misunderstandings.

Arrange marriage is not advisable because parents will show the bride or groom with the perception that their daughter or son will be happy. But the reality is they may not know each other before the marriage. Their expectations in the character may not be matched. In future, it may lead to divorce.

I don't have any idea of love marriage because mine is arranged but I can say from my experience that in arrange marriage you didn't get enough time to know each other (my opinion) and after that adjusting yourself with someone whom you don't know properly and his parents is just a very hard task. Well, in this case, you have only one plus point that you could gain the support of your parents. And also it is not necessary that you will develop a love for your partner in arrange marriages (my opinion) I seriously want to know others views as I don't have any ideas on love marriage!

In India, marriage means lifetime commitment. So choose your partner wisely.

Things changes after marriage, even if you are in relationship with someone from 2-3 years, you cannot say marriage will be successful.

My preference will be marriage in some known family.

In my opinion, both have their own pros and cons. Although, I am leaning on arranged marriage. And I can explain this. Many do not understand the concept of arranged marriage. You are not marrying a complete stranger. You can maintain a good bond with your parents and tell them what you look for in a partner. They will do the searching for you. Not to forget, marriage is not only the union of two people but also their families. Families do play an important role.

Sometimes you can fall in love with someone and be totally unaware of their family and culture. If so, what if you don't fit into their family?

Now, the chances of this happening in an arranged marriage is very very less. Because your parents know what is best for you and they do their research about the family that you are marrying into.

However, sometimes your loved one and their family might be a catch as well.

But in my opinion, Love marriages are a "hit or miss" like situation. It may or may not work out. Whereas, arranged marriages are a safe bet.

I prefer love marriage because in this type of marriage couples know before easily.

I am full support for arrange marriage because love marriage has not existed a long time. I think after love is pre ur love.

I think love marriage is not the success for life. More than 2 years relationship. Husband and wife are more misunderstandings. Then go to the court take for the divorce.

I think love marriage is best. As in arrange marriage that boy or girl appears to be best but after marriage, they leave or girls can be harrassed and all. In love marriage there is love and both are ready to do anything for each other. And parents will also accept as their happiness lies in the happiness of their child.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is best for maintain relationship both. Many time love marriage become fail because they don't understand both.

I go for love marriage. But it doesn't mean that I m against arrange marriage. L prefer with this too. Actually, its depends on who you are, how you treat, how's your mentality opposite your love ones. You must be honest, loyal must have faith on your partner. Yes, I believe so that parent is our well-wisher but their point of views is not going right sometimes. So, it's up to our own.