Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shujat said:   5 years ago
Hi everyone, in my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage you know everything about your partner her likes, dislikes, interests, and most important thing her secrets which are known to you and which is not possible in arrange marriage. In arrange marriage there are a lot of chances of quarrel, misunderstanding. And in this relationship parents do solve the problems and you are unable to communicate and solve the problem so I will go for love marriage.

Thank you.
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Shanu said:   8 years ago
I feel love marriage best in some cases like if their both family accepts then di family members fight if any problem occurs. Because nowadays we can't believe anyone. Knowing person before marriage is important because it's a long long relation.

Arranged marriage good but parents must think of person behavior not only about family. Love plays a very important role in life. That builds even family relations. Love has do power to change.
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Harry said:   8 years ago
Both marriages can be successful if two people are ready to accept each other without any demands and bias. But I personally believe Love marriage is better than Arranged marriage because In love marriage, the couple already have an understanding of each other and they are ready to live happily. Marriage is a compromise done by two souls who are ready to become a single soul. So, with proper understanding, love and affection, Love marriage will be preferred.
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Yaaridhu said:   8 years ago
Totally depends on who you are. While arranged marriages barely end in divorces, many love marriages do. Is that because love marriage is a stupid thing? Of course not. Most people just tend to handle it in a stupid way. If you wanna get married to someone you love, that's a beautiful thing. But when you plan to live the rest of your life with someone you love, you need to know them as more than just a sex partner. You need to learn to trust each other, to fully understand each other, to teach one another to responsibly and maturely handle children, cook, clean, run a household, pay the bills. Love carries away a lot of people from this necessary practicality, and thus problems occur, and they fight, and they break up. Now arranged marriage isn't as preferable, I mean you're getting married to someone you don't even know, but it's a strong commitment to your parents and relatives that you will live with this other person, and thus, breakups almost never happen, because it's the couple's responsibility to stay together. And it's also a great option for people who will probably have a hard time finding a legitimate girlfriend, like the guy writing this. Still, arranged marriages are less guaranteed to bring you happiness. So once again, it depends.
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Aditya Sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello, friends.

I am Aditya Sharma, as both marriages are good whether arrange or love, marriage is a word after seeing this we have a smile on our face. According to me love marriage is very nice if partners having good understanding, they know each other qualities, positive, negative all things in this marriage they will not take that much time to understand each other they will enjoy their rest life they full fill their dreams which they have seen before marriage together and they respect their families each other if they love each their family will also cooperate with each other. In arrange marriage there will be hesitation there will be Question mark what is the nature of my partner there are lots of things to do rather than this. Best marriage first you love then say to your parents and then make it like arrange marriage there will be fun. Thanks.
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Rohit said:   8 years ago
Basically, there is no guarantee that love marriage continues to have that essence of love. Psychologically every bachelor thinks that love marriage is better without analyzing that arrange one can bring a lot more happiness. So practically arranged is better.
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Aakanksha Bansal said:   8 years ago
In my opinion,

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are at par. Ultimately the decision should be given in the hands of the guy and the girl as it solely depends upon their lives.

Earlier divorce cases were mostly heard as a result of love marriage but nowadays divorce filing has increased alot for arrange marriages as well.

This should not be anybody else decision but the couple and if parents are with them. Then Cheers!
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Ashish said:   8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arranged marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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Athira said:   7 years ago
Good morning guys.

Love vs arrange marriage according to me, just realise it guys a simple answer is a span of love before marriage is love marriage and span of after marriage is arrange marriage. So nothing wrong whether its love or arrange but only thing matters is true love only then your life will be successful and meaningful marriage life. If you love someone its wrong only if you don't marry them. Be confident and strive 100 % for your relationship with patience and prudence for your right choice.
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Neha Dagar said:   7 years ago
I think love marriage is good. There is a stigma in mind of people that love marriage. It can't last long as in parents and relatives opinion. They even don't to listen to anything about their child decisions. They all need approval from society and emotional drama society. But I personally society begin with ourselves. If both boy and girl are happy then parents are happy.

Society is always evil who will pull the legs from behind if you are from standardised family basically in Haryana people are orthodox and I must say they have 2 faces. It is up to parents that they want their child happy or not if they really listen to society. They can't be happy and their child would not be happy in future.

Let go to arrange marriage I really want to tell people who are in favour of arranged marriage these people also have two faces one according to family and other for his personal life. Basically, boy who do arrange marriage has extra affair they were attached to their previous lover. Then what is the meaning of this useless marriage when you are not true to your partner.

I really disagree with a partner who cheats their other soul mate.
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