Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Ram said:   9 years ago
As per my knowledge both are equal.

Let the parents arrange marriage with a girl and between the gap of marriage love that girl as much as you want and marry her.
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Farook said:   9 years ago
Hi.

It's not a matter whether the marriage is arranged or loved, the commitment and understanding between the couple is takes more responsability in their marriage relationship.
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Pearl Violette said:   9 years ago
In my opinion, both have their own pros and cons. Although, I am leaning on arranged marriage. And I can explain this. Many do not understand the concept of arranged marriage. You are not marrying a complete stranger. You can maintain a good bond with your parents and tell them what you look for in a partner. They will do the searching for you. Not to forget, marriage is not only the union of two people but also their families. Families do play an important role.

Sometimes you can fall in love with someone and be totally unaware of their family and culture. If so, what if you don't fit into their family?

Now, the chances of this happening in an arranged marriage is very very less. Because your parents know what is best for you and they do their research about the family that you are marrying into.

However, sometimes your loved one and their family might be a catch as well.

But in my opinion, Love marriages are a "hit or miss" like situation. It may or may not work out. Whereas, arranged marriages are a safe bet.
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Shreya silwal said:   9 years ago
I prefer love marriage because in this type of marriage couples know before easily.
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Varsha said:   9 years ago
According to me, arrange marriage is better than the love marriage because of many reasons it is supported by the family and also society, I live in rural area so I know very well about the mindset of the rural people.

So these people not accept the love marriage.
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Vishal said:   9 years ago
There are so many love marriages are in the world they are happy and too successful and also there are so many arrange marriages those are very much successful. Everyone has its own choice. So, live happy whatever it is.
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Amit said:   9 years ago
Both are having some merits and demerits but, As my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in love marriage girl and guy both are familiarized to each other so after marriage we happy till few time but when you are not inculcating to full fill requirements problems are created and relationship is weak or finished no one involved this matter but in arrange marriage having some foundations and supported by parents.
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Misha said:   9 years ago
Marriage is a bond between two persons who want to live their rest of life with each other. I am in favour of love marriage because two people who decided to live life with each other must have good understanding, compassionate about each other.
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Naveen said:   9 years ago
Hi Everyone,

In my point of view arrange marriages is better how to I say means marriage after easily understand, commitment one to other. So increase trust to the couple.

Thank you.
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Aneesh said:   9 years ago
The most beautiful thing in this world is love of it is love or arranged marriage the most important things in marriage life is trust with each other if it's lost everything is lost but in arranged marriage if any problems come soon after marriage family members will be more support for the couples but in love marriage it Will no support from family members.
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