Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

You can not say that which marriage is better, love marriage or arrange marriage.

Its depends on your understanding skills. How accept your mistakes. And how you improve yourself. When you both will be careful about each other. Your marriage will successful sure.

If you love a right person your parents will be with your decision always. Because they love you a lot.

You can change a love marriage into love with arrange marriage.

In India, marriage means lifetime commitment. So choose your partner wisely.

Things changes after marriage, even if you are in relationship with someone from 2-3 years, you cannot say marriage will be successful.

My preference will be marriage in some known family.

I would say, if you have chosen your partner wisely, not blindly fallen in love with someone so that you can't see what are his or her intentions, then love marriage is good. Because you know your partner's expectations, you build that understanding which keeps your efforts high towards the partner. Loving someone and getting love in return means a lot. Then you just need to convince your parents. Love marriage is not a crime. I just don't get why parents react like it's a crime. If they love us, they should support us and fight with people who are against it instead of fighting with us for those people who only pulls your leg down, never appreciate you when you are going up.

Hi, Friends.

I Think arranged marriage would be always better because love for marriage is think is not doing to happen with everyone.

Indian culture has accept arrange marriage and it's had showed good results.

Like nowadays a new point in coming in society calling live in relationship.

It's good as it gives same right to your girlfriend like your wife.

So, I think by arranged marriage it will take time it is always good.

It is not a matter depending on whether it is love or arranged one, but the main thing is to be noted that one cannot maintain their relationship in an equal manner. Because I really felt the pain of love and also I agree with the terms of arranged marriage, but it is not at all a good one to marry an unknown person. It is only based on the thoughts that how we really understand the lovable one of our life. Marriage is a future of our happiness so be patient and choose your partner as your wish and also got married with the permission of your parents otherwise you would be waiting for your favourite life until you got the permission because waiting and patience did not disappointing anyone.

Be confident, you can feel the pleasure of love marriage.

Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing the partner is different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arrange marriages individuals prefers partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose the partner for marriage. Let\'s analyse which one of the two is better.

Love marriage:

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- The couple is responsible for its choice and the onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- The couple is aware of each other\'s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- The couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arrange marriage:

- Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families.
- Two families involved in the arrange marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other.
- Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.
- The Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.

Conclusion:

Both ways have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of a lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, it\'s the couple which has to live together for a lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage life because like life marriages too are full of uncertainties.

Hi friends,

Arrange marriage is better than love marriage because love marriage is not going a long time. Both are not respected each other and arrange marriage is supported from family so as both have commitment, honestly and respect each other. So I supported arrange marriage.

Hi.

So many different views about marriage. I agree that parents are our life. They brought us to this world. They fulfill all our needs. Their unconditional love is very great. When it comes to love between a guy and a girl, they fall in love, understands each other, (both must make sure its not attraction. . But you both are building d foundation for life). Also both must be ready to convince your parents if you really want your pure and true love to continue for lifetime. At times, it so happens that you. Both are so emotionaly. Attached that you jus can't even think of another guy/girl in your life. So at least now you realise its not ATTRACTION but its a deep AFFECTION and BOND.

So be bold too. Convince your parents. Love happens only once. Make that love for your lifetime and your life will be meaningful. Love your parents and also love your LOVE.

Hi.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. I prefer arranged marriage. Because parents are supported and in future you have any problems parents are guided. In love marriages parents are not supported.

I support love marriage we love any girl in a lifetime. Love is increasing strong bond each other. We can convert love marriage to arrange marriage. We will happy and family members are happy also. Therefor, I support of love marriage.