Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hello everyone,

In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.

So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.

But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.

They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.

That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.

And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.

According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.

Hello Everyone,

I read some comments but still confused.

I like arranged marriage where we get respect family support. In short, socially we feel positive.

But in other sides one of my best friends proposed me n we are having nice chemistry.

Even though I said no to him and now feeling restless. Can't see him with other girl and family expect settled guy.

So need your opinion. Should I go with love marriage with a friend or arrange marriage with a settled unknown guy.

Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,

Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.

Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.

And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.

This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.

In my point of view,

Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.

Hello, friends.

I'm Ashish.

We are discussing love marriage is better or arrange marriage. But in my opinion, both are good. Both have positive as well negative effects in life. So, according to me arrange marriages are good but which are love marriages also. I mean to say that a person can love other people, but if there is an allowance of there parents then they marry to each other and live life in a better manner with the support of both sides.

Thank you.

Hello, Friends.

According to my point of view, Arrange Marriage is better than the Love Marriage because in love marriage there is a relation between two persons but in arrange marriage there is a bonding between two families so relation will be more protected and there will be more moral support.

Hello everyone,

According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.

1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.

2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.

3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.

AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.

Hello Friends,
1-Love marriages are always better than a arranged marriages. In the love marriage, we never think about the cast and status which is good for our society to break the casteism chain and status.

2- In the love marriage we take decision according to our mutual understanding and capabilities and only we are responsible for our future. it encourages us to get our goal.
3- In the same time in arranged marriage, we totally depend on our family for maximum decisions.
4- In arranged marriages dowry system involved mostly.There is also pressure to show off their status in society, it is also a part of dowry system.

At the end conclusion is;
If we are not capable of taking any decision for our life itself, then After arranged marriage how you will take decisions for your future?

According to my point of view, both are good. But mostly arranged marriage is best why because parents are known which person is suitable for us. And more over good understanding also is there.