Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Jithin R said:   9 years ago
I think the topic itself is not that worthy. It's their own choice whether to follow love marriage or arranged marriage.
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Shirin jahan said:   9 years ago
In opinion,

Love marriage and arrange marriage both depend on mutual understanding.

But if I get love marriage I know the partner very much because of we spend too much time together, and easy to know his/her mentality & how can he/she understand, which topic conversation which time is suitable for the starting day of marriage.

But know in this day also love marriage is little wrong in our society.

And arrange marriage is not a bed of roses, we are always listening to this line in our society arrange marriage is most successful than love marriage. But this is not too much true, In Arrange marriage is very difficult to understand a new partner in our life, and manage all that things according to him or his families.

But if both married couples are mutual understanding both marriages are successful in our life.
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Sandhya said:   9 years ago
In my point of view, love marriage is better than arrange marriage, because in love marriage, both partners are understand each other very well.
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Chhaya gupta said:   9 years ago
According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love a couple can know to each other very much they can spend a lot of time with each other n they can understand each other and they can trust to each and they can decide what they have to do in their life n how they want to spend their life.
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Sanju said:   9 years ago
How they married is not a matter. The way they run thier life and mutual understanding between them makes life beautiful.
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San said:   9 years ago
I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.
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Priyanka Gupta said:   9 years ago
According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.

For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.

In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.

We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.

Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.
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Nandhu said:   9 years ago
My point of view, love/arrange marriage is that I support both are correct. Because even in the arrange marriage love plays the vital role. Love during school are college divert concentration from studies and at that stage, we are not mature enough to decide good are bad. It's all just affection or infatuation which we consider it as a love.
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Lokdeep Singh Patel said:   9 years ago
In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because many times they are immature about their married life & other things. But I don't neglect love because love is everywhere but understanding is better than love.
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Pooja said:   9 years ago
According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.

Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.
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