Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

I would prefer love marriage over arranged marriage. Its becasue in love marriages both the partners have known each other for years. And only after spending a lot of time with each other, they start getting comfortable with each other. Once they get comfortable with each other thay start to trust each other. For a marriage to be succesfull both the partners should have a good understanding of each other and should trust each other completely and that can only happen if they spend a lot of time with each other before getting married so that they can decide whether they really want to spend rest of their lives with each other or not. And not only in case of love marriages the partners also get time to know about each others family. Whereas in arranged marriage both the partners hardly get any time to meet and talk to each other. The only people who know each other are the family members of the partners and the partners who are going to spend rest of their life with each other haven't even talked to each other once. Many people may say that college love is infatuation, but not all of them are. And moreover in love marriages both partners try to know each other completely even their deep dark secrets whereas in arranged marriage one may not know how good or bad is the person whom he or she is getting married to, there are high chances of getting decieved by the partner's family members in order to hide something that may cause trouble ahead in their married life. In the end I would just like to say that love marriages have more advantages as compared to arranged marriage. So marry the person whom you love.

According to my point of view, both love marriage and arranged marriage have good and bad aspect.

For a marriage to be successful, the main thing that is necessary are mutual understanding, love, affection, cooperation and trust. This is possible only when both partners understand each other in every way. This can be possible both in love as well as arranged marriage but it mainly depends on partners that how much they cooperate with each other. The thing is in love marriage, couples know each other well and build a good relationship and they go for marriage but in the case of arranged marriage, it takes time for couples.

In love marriage, partners can be sure that they can lead their life fruitfully or not but that's a question mark in case of arranged marriage.

We can't say that doing arranged marriage may create a happy family as our parents decide because we can see a number of family issues and dowry issues due to which both male and female both are being a victim and create a bad memory for several years. The Demand of dowry in arranged marriage is just like a curse to girls family. And for sure. Due to all these issues, neither couples nor family may create a good example of successful arrange marriage.

Love marriage is better than arranged one because the partners have a good understanding about themselves. They can do every work in a co-operative way. There's no issue of dowry at all and female and male both are never dominated, there's respect for each other. If couples respect themselves, then for sure they will respect each others family, culture and tradition. And if family love their child, they will respect their child choice and would be happy with their decision. Yes, but one thing should be kept in mind that if any couple go for marriage with their lover, parents decision should be given main priority because they sacrifice a lot for us throughout their life.

My point of view, love/arrange marriage is that I support both are correct. Because even in the arrange marriage love plays the vital role. Love during school are college divert concentration from studies and at that stage, we are not mature enough to decide good are bad. It's all just affection or infatuation which we consider it as a love.

In my point of view, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because many times they are immature about their married life & other things. But I don't neglect love because love is everywhere but understanding is better than love.

According to my point of view, Both types of marriages are right on their places because, basically marriage is the collaboration, union between two respective families which are combined by two people, the agreement between two families causes the new relationship between two people.

Basically arranged marriage is the tradition in our country. Where two unknown people are spending their lives together with the agreement of their respective families, tradition, nature. They spend their lives to gather. But at some point, if husband and wife's thoughts not matched then it will become the big issues between their families and it may affect on family, their tradition also and causes the end of the relationship.

Hello everyone,

In my point of view, there is no one who can say that the love marriage is better then arrange marriage or arrange marriage is better then love marriage. Because the success of married life is totally based on understanding if husband and wife understands each other very well then their married life will become heaven for them and similarly if they don't understand each other then their married life will surely become hell for both of them.

So if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should go for love marriage. And if you are failed to find then you should go for arrange marriage and let the god decide, may be god find someone very special for you.

But there is one another point that I want to focus here is that there are still some narrow minded people who consider love marriage a taboo.

They have to change their thinking because if you force someone to get married with whom they don't want to get married then it will destroy their life because how can they live their whole life with whom they don't love. That also happens in arrange marriage where parents force their children to marry without respecting their choice.

That's the area where are society needs to improve. Because now we are living in modern era where everyone has right to take decision of his/her life.

And at the end, I would like to say that it's the matter of love and love can be happen before marriage and also it can be happen after the marriage.

According to me, arrange marriage better than love marriage because our family like arrange marriage but some people like love marriage I want to tell everybody arrange marriage give lot of benefit when I don't have a money I can giving money my father and I can tell my father I have a lot of problem in my life so please help me but love marriage is not good Because lot of problems our family does not agree love marriage so couples decided love marriage they have a lot of problems it's my.

Hello Everyone,

I read some comments but still confused.

I like arranged marriage where we get respect family support. In short, socially we feel positive.

But in other sides one of my best friends proposed me n we are having nice chemistry.

Even though I said no to him and now feeling restless. Can't see him with other girl and family expect settled guy.

So need your opinion. Should I go with love marriage with a friend or arrange marriage with a settled unknown guy.

Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,

Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.

Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.

And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.

This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.

In my point of view,

Arrange and love marriage both are good in that situation if both boy and girl have understand to each other in better way.