Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hello everyone.

I am going to share my views on Love marriage and arrange marriage.

Marriage is one of the most important parts of a human being. Marriage is the long life commitment so the decision to choose a life partner should be in one's own hand.

In my opinion love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

Because in love marriage couple knew and well understood each other. We know understanding is the key of better relationship.

Love marriage is the only way to demolish the caste system and dowry system.

Thank you.

As far as I am concerned love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marriage both partner know about each and every thing about her / him also they tuning is better they have spend lot's of time with together that'y They made perfect for each other aslo they know about their secrets.

Hello friends.

Now, I want to tall you about the topic which has been given to me love marriage v/s arrange marriage.

Marriage is a long-life commitment. Marriage is a very important part of life in which people choose their own life partner.

In love marriage.

Love marriage is the best to arrange marriage. In love marriage, couples know each other and they spent times each other before marriage. Who man do love marriage which many choices but who man do arrange marriage no more options because arrange marriage doing in same caste/religion/society etc?

Some disadvantages in love marriage, in my views who people doing love marriage, are mostly independent so they are left from their society. In love marriage, both couples are don't wait for their parents.

In Arrange marriage.

In arrange marriage both couples don't know each other because mostly don't spend time before marriage. In arrange marriage, parents force them for marriage.

In arrange marriage both parents are coming to each other home for seeing couples. Then we decided on marriage. In arrange marriage, couples thought about both families.

According to research, Albert epistle says that love in arranging marriages tends to fade away with time, whereas love in arranged marriages grows with time.

In arrange marriage divorce rate less than from love marriage so love marriage is best for life.

In my views love marriage best from arrange marriage because in love marriage both couples agree from this.

Thanks for all.

Marriage is an important part of every human's life.

Marriage is not a play of doll and dolly it's the promise of a lifetime it is the bond of two families and couples also.

So the couple should always well be known by each other. They would know about like and dislike of each other when they are well known by each other they have no tension and problems.

Marriage is an important decision of one's life.

A constant debate in the mind of youngsters today is love marriage vs arranged marriage.

Statistics indicate 75% of people in India free from arranged marriage in 90% of people love marriage.

With modernisation, love marriages are getting popularity and acceptance.

In my opinion, love marriage and arranged marriage both are good because everyone has their own thinking level and thoughts about marriage. Why I say both are good because both marriages have their pros and cons.

There's a difference between true love and romantic love/attraction. Romantic love/attraction/infatuation needs sexual intimacy to stay alive. After some time this sexual intimacy starts to fade and both realise that the love is lost. They don't feel the same etc. But they have to realise that it was not loved from the very beginning. They just got attracted to each other. They always thought of being physical with each other but not realising it at the same time. Now, what's true love then? As Marilyn Monroe once said sex is opposite of love. In true love sex is secondary. You care for each other. You're not jealous. You're fighting but are never separate. You're at a comfort with each other. You know she/he will never cheat. You're always worried for your partner. So whether love marriage or arranged marriage. There has to be true love in it. Only then you can spend the rest of your life happily see after. Just like so many other love stories. But how to find true love. There's no answer to that. You meet new people and spend some time to know each other. And see if that definition of true love is there or not. Your inner voice tells you that he/she is the one. And it's not lust. So go after true love. Even if it takes time.

Hi friends, in my opinion, I think marriage word is given by society. And in society, there are all including our family. And the human is the social animal. So doesn't matter marriage is love or arrange. Matter is how much blessings you have to their relationship. Because one is broken into all. God is one.

I will go for an Arranged marriage.

In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.

In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.

While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.

I am in the favour of Arrange Marriages which can be a Love marriage. I mean to say Person can make love marriages to arrange marriage by the allowance of their parents. Nowadays, every parent wants their children goodness and 70% of parents can never refuse their children's choice.