Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Aryan Anjum said:   8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because you will have to know about your partner to whom you have to spend your whole life.
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Mona said:   8 years ago
Hi Friends.

I think in both of married life Husband and Wife should cooperative and understanding. It's necessary things for good and lovely relationship. If in the married life there is a cooperation and understanding is fulfill so definitely it makes good relation and life become a heaven for you.

I want to just suggest as a friend firstly make a friend and then start every relationship now you will see and also you feel your life is full of enjoyable with your arrange or love partner. You can share every problem very easily and relax after it.
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Poonam said:   8 years ago
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage, however, it is fact that about 90% still have arranged marriages, an arrange marriage is the center is the attention of family union. Love marriage is nothing but it is only attraction after some time attraction will be finished and after some time they grumble to each other then they take big decision for divorce so love marriage has a not ever.
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Aishwarya SA said:   8 years ago
Hello everyone,

According to me, both love and arrange marriages are good, but it totally depends on individuals and in Indian culture, it totally depends on our parents and family. We always cannot say that arrange marriages are good because we will not be knowing the partner which may sometimes lead to many problems like:.

1) He/She may be forcefully agreed for the marriage.

2) As we will not know their family, there may be a risk of torchure, dowry etc because some marriages are made only by the status of his family.

3) Partner may show only positive side at first so as to impress but one day truth reveals and lead to divorce.

AS a reason love marriage is more successful if he/she respect partner, know him well in terms of good and bad thoughts, should settle first, respect society and discuss with parents about their relationships and finally should be careful whether the partner really cares and loves you or just physical attraction so as to avoid divorce further.
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Amarjeet kushwaha said:   8 years ago
Arrange marriage is the best because of bride and groom unknown and he doesn't know about each other and arrange marriage contract a two person and my partner choose by our Parents and elder so Arrange marriage is the best from love marriage.
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Achyut said:   8 years ago
Hi I am Achyut,

After love marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said this is love married problem. And after arrange marriage creating a big problem in our family, then people are said that they do not match their minds and thoughts, couples are not known each other, but not a blame arrange marriage.
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Ms Rakshit said:   8 years ago
According to me, marriage is not only a bonding of two people but also it is a bonding of two families. Marriage is more about knowing each other, respect each other. If you want to make a successful marriage life you should have enough understanding power and adjusting capability. In love marriage, you have the opportunity to know each other's family members, their cultures etc. So that, you can adjust easily. But in an arranged marriage, these things are not possible. Moreover, some arranged marriage demands dowry which is a social curse. But every arranged marriage is not bad and vice versa. If two persons have enough love, respect, adjusting ability then it will become successful.
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Supriya said:   8 years ago
Hi,

In my point of view, arranged marriage is better than love marriage. They can love after their marriage also. In their life problems will be less as compared to love marriages. Anyway if they get any problem their relatives and family members can solve. In love marriages also problem can be solved if they get parents support. But nowadays we are all seeing that most of the parents were not encouraging love marriages. What I said it because of my observation around my surrounding. But I'm not criticizing anyone. Thank you very much.
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Anu patel said:   7 years ago
Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.
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Prince said:   7 years ago
According to me, both marriages are based on the trust. Trust on parents in arranged marriages that with whom you have to spend your whole life they will choose the deserving one.
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