Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Tanya b. said:
7 years ago
For a marriage to be successful, I believe that few things are inmportant.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
1. You should know your partner well. Of course, some arranged marriages work too, but I believe that Proper friendship and understanding is needed between two human beings for a marriage or union to work for life.
2, your family and their family should agree. I believe that no union is worth it to defy your family and loved ones. If your family is giving you a hard time, then you must give them time and gently make them understand you point of view.
For this, a successful marriage combines both aspects of love and arranged marriage- parents' approval and love and understanding of your partner.
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Shreya patra said:
9 years ago
I completely support arranged marriage because, at present date, the youth reaches the conclusion of a wedlock at a very early stage what basically they have is lust or infatuation with degrading values they have no idea of love. A love marriage last just as long as the spark is alive and 1ce it is dead, the relationship collapses but and arrange marriage there is considerable amt of family pressure!
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Shivansh said:
9 years ago
Hi friends.
According to me, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knows about likes and dislikes of our partner, in this way we can run our life smoothly, but in arrange marriage we don't know about our partners likes and dislikes which creates problems in the life, we are not a product, as a human being we also have the feelings for someone to whom we love, it should be our decision to whom we want to marry, if parents will think about their status in the society, and their name in the society, is they don't know that others will help them in the happiness only but when they are in trouble nobody will stand behind them for their protection. Parents should also respect the feelings of their child.
According to me, love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knows about likes and dislikes of our partner, in this way we can run our life smoothly, but in arrange marriage we don't know about our partners likes and dislikes which creates problems in the life, we are not a product, as a human being we also have the feelings for someone to whom we love, it should be our decision to whom we want to marry, if parents will think about their status in the society, and their name in the society, is they don't know that others will help them in the happiness only but when they are in trouble nobody will stand behind them for their protection. Parents should also respect the feelings of their child.
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Achu said:
9 years ago
Comparing with love marriage and arrange marriage, love marriage is the best because we can share anything to them they will support and guide us be in arrange marriage we have no option we can't share openly. This is my view.
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Nasir said:
9 years ago
Hello, Friend, MY Name is Nasir and I prefer arrange marriage because most of cases love marriages create.
Issues in their live. Love is actually attraction between a girl and a boy. It is very good when they in love but.
Once when they are taking a decision and married, problem starts and even self-ego is start between them. And this will lead to breaking up the relation.
In case of arrange marriage Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background.
Issues in their live. Love is actually attraction between a girl and a boy. It is very good when they in love but.
Once when they are taking a decision and married, problem starts and even self-ego is start between them. And this will lead to breaking up the relation.
In case of arrange marriage Because your parents will always choose the better partner for you, after checking person's and his family background.
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Jitendra baghel said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
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Mohd Ahmad khan said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, I think arranged marriage is good with a comparison to love marriage because I read and saw many cases like as Julius Caesar, Laila Majnu, Orlando Oliver His life became useless in love affair his in those person love is not a success. Then how I can say love marriage is good and also it not relate my Indian culture so I think arranged marriage is good.
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Jithin R said:
8 years ago
I think the topic itself is not that worthy. It's their own choice whether to follow love marriage or arranged marriage.
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Preethi Baskaran said:
8 years ago
Hai, I'm Preethi Baskaran from India.
Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.
Thanks.
Love marriage or arranged marriage depends on one's mindset. I am not against of love marriage or arranged marriage. In my point of view, many people decide their life based on the parent's decision. That's not fair for everyone. Everyone has inner feeling about their future. Decide your life by your own (boy or girl). If you love someone who never leaves you at any situation, live for him/her. Convenience your decision with your parents. Make that happen. If you prefer for the arranged marriage, talk with him/her about your past life. Mutually understand with each other. If he/she suits your life, then go for it.
Thanks.
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Manu said:
8 years ago
According to me, love marriage is the best one but before loving to choose the best person who can understand you respect you admire you support you and moreover shows love towards you and respect to your family members then love marriages wins otherwise better go for arranged only.
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