Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

First of all, Good morning to all of you. I am Manoj.

Now I am expressing my views on the topic and topic is Love marriage V/S Arrange marriage.

There are many advantage and disadvantage of love marriage and arrange marriage.

Love marriage.

1) The marriage is life_long commitment. So, selecting a life partner should be one's own hand.
2) In love marriage, the couple know each other very well and there will be no hesitant weather also love Or not.
3) people who go for love marriage is more choice that who go for arrange marriage because almost arrange marriage happen in the same religion/caste.

DISADVANTAGE of love marriage:

1) people who go for love marriage, is also independent of their relationship.
2) Love marriage is socially unacceptable in some parts of India.
3) Love is not only important in life. We should check our family background and economical conditions.

ARRANGE MARRIAGE:

1) In arrange marriage couple both parents know each other and agree on both of parents.
2) Parents and well-wishers are thought about their future and economical conditions.

DISADVANTAGE:

1) Arrange marriage is like a lottery.
2) Couples do not share their view in a long way because there is very less time before marriage.
3) Divorce rate is less in arrange marriage compared to love marriage. So we can not say that arrange marriage is happy in life.
So, that's all about my views on the topic.

Thanks.

Hello, everyone, I think that an arranged marriage is better than a love marriage because in an arranged marriage both of them have dreams about how they spend time with their partner and where they go but in love, you do all the things before marriage and after the marriage, you have nothing to do and life gets boring. Thank you for listening to me so deeply.

Marriage is a very important social institution. Every individual wants to have a perfect match, but the criteria for choosing the partner is different. In love marriages, individuals prefer to choose their partners on their own, while in the case of arrange marriages individuals prefers partners chosen by their family or parents. There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose the partner for marriage. Let\'s analyse which one of the two is better.

Love marriage:

- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- The couple is responsible for its choice and the onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- The couple is aware of each other\'s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- The couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.

Arrange marriage:

- Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a confluence of two families.
- Two families involved in the arrange marriages know each other very well and are compatible with each other.
- Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.
- The Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.

Conclusion:

Both ways have their merits as well as demerits and marriage is a decision of a lifetime. Though families are involved in most of the marriages, it\'s the couple which has to live together for a lifetime. So, the decision to choose life partner should be left to the individuals. Ultimately no one can certify the best way for a perfect marriage life because like life marriages too are full of uncertainties.

In my point of view, love marriage is good. Because in love marriage they both know each other from a long time and they already knew about each others background like dislike character nature everything after knowing this much they choose each other so if they will marry each other then they will not face any major problem. I know parents might oppose them for marriage but if they are really want to spend their hole life together then they should convince their parents.

Hi, I'm Vipin.

In my perception, love marriage is the best choice for the couples because they love each other and love is the important part of our life when the person suffered by emptiness then the love makes feel you special and very important and our parents should understand their children's feelings.

Thanks a lot.

Both are good in their perspective, but for comparison love marriage is cool. One should rise in love not fall and the couple should build their career first then everyone will agree.

Hello friends,

According to me, arranged marriage is best in both because according to a survey we know about that mostly. I mean 70 percent divorce is done those who apply love marriage. Sometimes boys or girls left their families for this marriage (love marriage) and will go from home. This type of marriage creates a huge problem in his/her life. In some case, boys and girls take this type of decision in little age and these decisions create problems in life.

Thanks.

Hello friends.

Myself Urman Khan.

According to my opinion, love marriage vs arrange marriage.

Both love marriage and arrange marriage are good but love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love, the couple knows their qualities, behaviour, and emotion very well.

And they can spend the perfect time of life and they can solve our problems.

But, in arrange marriage couple don't know to each other when you're family select a girl for you.

And after marriage, they find that their behaviour, emotion, thinking doesn't match that cause of divorce.

Love is life.

Thank you.

In my opinion, arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because nowadays the most of failure by this love marriage. I hope when we take love marriage, most of the conversations there before marriage. It's not too fair and already knew what's like and dislikes and weak points too but if we take arrange marriage fully support of family and try to understand each other and find to know what's like or dislikes of partner and more and more. That time automatically loves will mix and be a great understandable life.

Thank you.

Hello, everyone my name is Samir.

As, I think the love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In love marraige, we choose partners oursleves, We had spent lots of time with each other before the marraige. There is mutual understanding with our patners. We both knew about his/her likes, dislikes, behaviour. If We talk about arrange marraige, We don't choose our life patners ourselves. Parents choose bridegroom/bride for us. We are forced to marry. We marry with whom who are completely unknown. That's why. I prefare love marriage then arrange marriage.