Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Indrajeet kumar sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, a love marriage is far better than an arranged marriage. Because one has the complete freedom to select his or her life partner. No elder decides. Both people know each other already and mutually decides to spend whole life with each other. The Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry. Because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level. But an arrange marriage like a lottery, love may or may not blossom between the couple.
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Shahwaj khan said:   8 years ago
Hi, friends.

According to my opinion, arrange marriage always better than love marriage because arrange marriage is not a contact b/w two people but a confluence of two familes and two familes involved in arrange marriage you know my dear friends in arrange marriage my life partner is select my familes and I think that my familes is selected my life partner better than me because he knows as my negative and positive points and my nature he know as which type girl is better than me and any parents is never wants he's son of life partner is wrong in any way so l think that arrange marriage better than love marriage, and in love marriage before marriage two person b/w love in love love time two person is always nose and look positive point with each other he's never shown own negative point and after being married he's known as negative points with each other and everyday great a new problem and he way of divorce and one day is divorce with each other so I think that love marriage is never better than arrange marriage, That's all.
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Mohit said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

According to me, arranged marriage is best in both because according to a survey we know about that mostly. I mean 70 percent divorce is done those who apply love marriage. Sometimes boys or girls left their families for this marriage (love marriage) and will go from home. This type of marriage creates a huge problem in his/her life. In some case, boys and girls take this type of decision in little age and these decisions create problems in life.

Thanks.
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Shiv said:   8 years ago
My dear friend, according to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because if your family select a girl for you and after marriage quality of your wife is different from you then we face a problem. I support love marriage only one condition if the family of both boy and girl are satisfied with this marriage.
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Subhajit Podder said:   8 years ago
Good morning my dear all friend.

Here topic is love marriage and arrange marriage, which is good. It's thought to me that love marriage is very much better than arrange. Because maximum people tell that 70% or above love marriage has been destroying for any reason. I am telling that it's true. But we should think why it is happening. There are some problem who takes love marriage in their life. Actually problem is that unfortunately maximum people can't know what is meaning of love. How to care both each other. How to respect think of both person or etc. This is the problem. That's why love marriage cannot continue. If we think for a time to the earlier era I mean earlier person then can understand who accepted love marriage in their life and they could continue. Because they knew how to love. Here I am indicating the point that in our time we have been forgetting what is the love. That's way the problem is creating to the young person. Except that here are second problem. That is before maturity a boy or girl have been so much involving with love. For a result they are facing may problem. So for these type problem love has been destroying and divorcing. If we think it logically that love helps us to know each other before marriage which is not possible if anybody go to arrange marriage. So, end of discussion in a nutshell I must say that love is not wrong before marriage. We have to understand the problem and compare. Then we can solve the problem. So according to my views, love should be kept to the last point. That's all. Thank you.
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Himanshu said:   8 years ago
Hello friends, today we are discussing on the topic arrange marriage vs love marriage. I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage. Because in love marriage we see that many of the couples do not understand with their views of mind, that causr of their devorce. , because marriage is a relationship between two heart and in this there is any problems we can not accept it.

And on the other hand, we must think what our family want if thry are satisfied with us then we give reference to anything so I think that arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Raja said:   8 years ago
Hello friend.

Today we are discuss about love marriage and arrange marriage according to my opinion arrange marriage is better than love marriage because in arrange marriage we are not choose girl family are choose family are support and in the love marriage love between two heart family are not support.
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Sunakshi said:   8 years ago
Hi, guys.

In this topic, I will say that if you find a nice person whom you think you can be spent your whole with that person you should go for love marriage otherwise leave it on your parents they will surely find a nice guy for you.

Thanks.
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Nancy said:   8 years ago
In my opinion,

Both are good but arrange marriage is better for our Indian society.

If we prefer love marriage against our parents and that marriage for some reason didn't last for long years then we would be in no condition to go back to our parent's house as they won't accept us. If in case they will, then society won't let them live happily. It will create a problem only for our parents.

In case of arranged marriage, at least if the marriage for some reason didn't last for long, parents will take us back as they chose that guy for you and it was their mistake.

For me, arrange marriage is better than love marriage.
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Humaira said:   8 years ago
I think it depends on which marriage you get offered first. If you fall in love with someone I think it's best to talk to your family about marrying this person so they do sort out any marriage arrangements they have made or want to make. You need to consider the couple feelings. I know a family who is in problems because their son is in love with one girl but his parents have made him marry his cousin whom they arranged. Now he has both women and he is only happy with the one he fell in love with. He keeps the wife his parents chose because he wants to make them happy and keep family pride. To make it worst he has kids with both women. I think love marriage is better in this case. If he had not found someone he loves then yes he can just do arrange marriage. In love marriage, you fall in love with the things you get to know about the person. That's why we fall in love. In arrange marriage you only start to love the person because you care for them, they look after your family perhaps. But it is in most cases, not true love.
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