Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Med said:   8 years ago
I think the love marriage is good because before you marriage you know the behaviours of your husband the thing that make him funny and angry even you can't make a mistake but arranged mariage is bad because you don't any behaviours to your husband even you mary today and you will devorce him tomorow it mean that marriage can't take a long periode it so short periode. Thanks.
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Saroj said:   8 years ago
Marriage is the meeting of two souls who will bring happiness to the families either it is love or arrange.

It depend on both the companion that how they make their life beautiful, happy and energetic.

Requirements is same in both the case, only thing is in love marriage they know each other more might be but in arrange marriage they also know each other but with the choice of their parents.

In love marriage, if something good or bad you have no choice to blame/praise anyone, you are responsible for what you have chosen. As per human nature, we always find someone to blame for our bad happing's (if any) in that case arrange marriage is good.

I think this is a never-ending topic of discussion.

It only depends on the couple what they want to do with their life, some will make their arrange marriage so happens that people will consider them as a love couple and vice versa.

So, in my point of view, live your life at the fullest, love your partner, understand your partner, leave your ego and enjoy the warmth of the relationship either it is love or arrange marriage.
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Alok sharma said:   8 years ago
No one can say that love marriage or the arrange marriage is the best. It is totally dependent on wife and husband if the boy doesn't understand his wife and the girl also doesn't understand the feelings of her husband what he/she wants and what you are giving then their life will be like a hell and on the other hand if they understand each other then their life will be like a heaven.

In our society, there are many peoples who are thinking that intercaste marriage can't be and they always oppose the love marriage because they are fickle minded they want me to follow their old traditions because they think that they are right but I think these type of people should change the way of thinking.

Its a matter of love and if you find your love with whom you can spend your whole life then you should do love marriage otherwise you should do arrange marriage and love is the important thing on earth without love anyone can't live here.

And at the end, I want to tell you that love can happen before and after the marriage.
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Tejpal sharma said:   8 years ago
Hello guys, according to me, both marriages have their own joy. As like life marriage is also full of uncertainties so it depends on couple how they deal with it. If they understand each other and do small sacrifices for each other and lives happily then it doesn't matter that the marriage is arranged or love.
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Mona said:   8 years ago
In my opinion, both the marriage are good. It's not about the type of marriage but it's about the type of couple and their understanding to each other. Eventually, I m in favor of love marriage and with the acceptance of parents because when the couples are happy, then they can handle their family in the happiest way.
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Vignesh Murthi said:   8 years ago
Hi guys! Love Or Arrange what would you select? I don't have a idea about that but I know something about those things Just share you here First and best is love. From the Ancient to the modern stories based on love show what love means Is like caring of each other or just made for each other. In My opinion, Love is just talking a person Within you or two souls caring each other and Where the love is born and Another arrange marriage I don't Oppose these too because arrange marriage is Carried by selection of your cared one who I mean is your parents. But when you choose these you may know that specific person only for a short period and another thing is A person who really loves you is an Awsome thing.

But nowadays a confusion rises between term crush and love. So many confusion arises. A true Love is so rare only from a good person.
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Sri said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

In my thinking, both love marriage and arranged marriage are good. Marriage is not based on love or arranged which is based on two hearts. If they can trust and care together then they will survive and they will understand together. So live a life with care and trust.
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Ankit Singh said:   8 years ago
Whether it is love marriage or Arranged marriage, the "Love" is the only adhesive of bondage the souls of both.

As long as Love exists, there will be no problem at all.
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Pavetthren said:   8 years ago
I'll go with love marriage, if we think logically arrange marriage is some kind of nuisance happenning to both sexes involved, my only question is how could you really decide your right companion through rest of your life.

Without even knowing their character or without being obnoxious about their behaviour, or decide them behalf of your parent's wish, it must be you who should decide your partners and more over I think what you get while first sight is some kind of attraction not love. And only through love you get close to someones heart, so that you could get to know each other and whether both their characters are in sink and also to know about their past life and situations they are facing and what the right companion could do to make them happy.
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Pradeep said:   8 years ago
I like love marriage. Because love marriage people are Powerful in their bonding and relationship between them is very strong no miss understanding between them.
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