Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Varaprasad said:   9 years ago
Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".

Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.

If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.

In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
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Shilpa verma said:   8 years ago
In my Opinion,

Love marriage is almost good than arrange marriage because Every one girl or a boy know about their behavior, nature, Emotions, etc each other.

In India, All the In Indians preferred to arrange marriage According to their situation, thinking etc. Everyone thinks different in different-different situations. Most people have their own thinking according to the atmosphere.
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Abc said:   8 years ago
As you know both marriages is good no one is bad it totally depends on your mentality, according to me both marriages are important but in love marriage, its depend on your personality but I know many love marriage is a success but many families are supportive. Those family who is educated and understand your feelings then support you.

In arrange marriage, both couples are unknown to each other but your family is very happy. After marriage, they are in love and its love is very deep and it does not depend on your personality it's your nature.

So guys in both situations, marriage is good and its own place their own importance.
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Parmod said:   8 years ago
I think the love marriage is good because we know each other and there is no dowry system.
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Tripti said:   8 years ago
In love marriage, you have that assurance before marriage itself that life partner will understand and support one doesn't need to adjust compromise much. Main is one knows the nature but observation regarding choosing the partner should be correct since it's your decision.

In arrange marriage, there is a fear of how will be my partner. One definitely need to take time while choosing your life partners so definitely I will prefer love marriage.
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Deepu said:   8 years ago
Hi everyone, what I feel is love marriage is far better than arranged because, I have seen most of the people in relationships who are actually happy even after years because during the relationship they get to know about each other, their tastes and they have a proper understanding between them. It's not that in arranged marriages there is no love and understanding at all but what I think is once we get married we don't have any other option to do if we come to know that the person is not right for us. For whole life, we need to tolerate him even if we don't want to. There are some cases like even if we like a person and want to share an entire life with him parents doesn't support and it finally leads to an arranged marriage. Love or arranged marriage whatever it is we need to love a person as a human being as he is going to be a partner forever and I'm not telling that it's destiny but it's our choice towards everything and need to stay happy because it's our life. We don't need to give any apologies to anyone.
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Manisha said:   8 years ago
Hi myself Manisha.

My perception is candid about both ways of marriage. If you succeed in your life and you have the best relationship with someone, spontaneously your family will agree easily in case of love marriage. And arranged marriage would be your option. Thank you.
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Anya said:   7 years ago
According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.
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Ranjeet kumar said:   7 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.
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Susil kumar malik said:   7 years ago
In my point of view, both are good when two people understand each of problem and solve each other other than both marriages have the trouble of life.
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