Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Good afternoon everyone.

My self Naveen Malik.

In my view love marriage and arrange marriage both are ok. In love marriage, both the partners know each other very well and in arrange marriage the partners will take time to know each other. Obviously parents will choose a better half for us but still in my personal opinion love marriage has better results compared to arrange marriages.

So, in my view, love marriage has greater value in today's modernisation India.

Thank you.

Hello everyone. This side Harendra sharma,

As you all know, In case of love marriage person chooses his partner himself or herself But in arrange marriage our parents choose for us and you know parents won't want bad for their children.

So, I want to say that in case of marriage parents $ person both should be agree with the person with whom marry will conduct Hence in case of love marriage parents should agree and in arrange marriage we should. That's all. Thank you all for listening me with patience and affection.

HELLO FRIENDS.

In love marriage, there is only love between the couples and no family support,

In an arranged marriage, there is only family support but no love between them,

BUT in love N arranged marriages there is both love between them and family support to them so, finally love come arranged marriages OR arranged come love marriages or much better any other.

Marriage is a beautiful connection of two souls. Whether the marriage would be succeeded or not does depend upon whether it is arranged or love but solely depends on understanding, maturity and how they can deal with the situation together. In love marriage, people already know each other their liking as well as disliking and how they will react in a certain situation so that would be easier as we do not have to put any extra effort to know about that person. But in arrange marriage we know our partner day by day /we can say slowly which is also a very heart wrenching and this brings two partners close to each other. At last, Marriages are made in heaven.

I agree with you @ Neha Gupta.

But tell me one thing. As you are saying what to do if someone fall in love before marriage the true love. But tell me what if the person you are in love with is a fraud may be he/she is playing with you. Answer me just one thing. What is the guaranty of love?

Both marriages are good. Not everyone met with true LOVE in their life. But based on things I have seen, I can say ARRANGE marriages are more successful than LOVE marriages.

Because most of LOVE affairs are just infatuation (attraction), LOVE marriage based on this does not survive for long period.

I think Love Marriages are better than Arranged Marriages. I can put many points in favor of love marriages. The main thing is which I want to say that love and affection is very crucial thing to bind any relation and today each and every relation depends on expectations. In these expectations mostly people expect financial security, comfortable living status, and the most important thing is independence in relationship. If I clarify the term "Independence in Relationship" that is a comfortable space in between any relation. In traditional marriage systems it seems that sometimes a person has to confine in the relationship at anyway but If we choose love marriage option then we can understand the person's feelings and his or her expectations towards for upcoming relations before the marriage so it gives more help for choosing the better option.

I agree with all of my friends. But according to my point of view, I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. In case of love, we know the quality, the behaviour and the mentality of our future wife very well. You have to spend your life yourself. With your life partner. So we should choose our life partner ourselves.

That's it.

Thank you all of you.

According to me, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in this two individual boy and girl can know very well before their marriage. It removes hindrances of religion, cast, color and creed, also dowry system. Love marriage can be a key parameter in social development. Parents support you after you tell them about real conditions. There will be best future married life.

Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".

Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.

If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.

In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.