Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Amar said:   2 years ago
In this topics, I am favor of love marriage.

1. In a love marriage, already know each other very well and also know about family members & their background so after marriage not big expectations from both sides.

But in arranged marriage it's all depend only on family decision. Not able to reject and cut off family choices so after marriage comes to many challenges to make their good relationship.
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Radha said:   2 years ago
In my point of view. Love marriage with parents' support is the best option because.

If a boy or girl imagine their life with his loved one on the other side parent also think of their children's life well.

If we lead our life with parents and loved ones love marriage with parent's support is the best choice.
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Chandhu chandhini said:   2 years ago
My opinion is either a love marriage or an arranged marriage everything is good when you feel good.

In an arranged marriage, we don't know about the person so we are going to experience the new life.

In a love marriage, we already know the person and when we married the marriage we feel very safe but we have to maintain some conditions before marriage.

Then what's your opinion?
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Saikumar said:   2 years ago
In my opinion.

It is not the type of marriage one should think but having a good understanding between the couple for everything in their lives can leave them happy throughout their journey.

Love marriage:
It totally depends upon the couple because there will be no support from the girl side and the boy side. So they have to keep a healthy understanding of their problems and things.

In other cases, yes they don't have any support, but they can be happy in their lives with their understanding.

In Arrange Marriage, take the actor's family as an example, where there is a lot of fame, money, and family but at last, they are just divorced because of no proper understanding between them.

So at last in my opinion, everything depends on the understanding between the couple.

Thank you.
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Raunak Srivastava said:   2 years ago
Firstly we can't say which marriage is better than the other.

People who had an arranged marriage and who had a love marriage are happy in their lives, but there are some who are not.

But In my opinion, it is very important to know the person to whom you are getting married. Marriage is also like a phase of life that can cherish or ruin your life. So it is very important that you choose your partner wisely. Whether it is a love marriage or arrangement. The judgement of the partner should made with the consent of the persons who are going to marry each other.
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Mohd Ahmad said:   2 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is the best option for all. Because we know very well that girl. Her behavior, her nature, her good and bad habits. In a love marriage, anybody does not depend on dowry because the boy's family depends on him and he manages his family for that.

In an arranged marriage, the boy's family depends on the dowry and his family demands for dowry.
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Shohrat jahan said:   2 years ago
In my opinion, an arrange marriage is better than a love marriage because two families are happy to see each other and they bless them. I know that arranged marriage is a part of compromise and adjustment but if you get used to a luxurious life then you will not be able to live anywhere without any facilities.
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Sangam Sulkiya said:   3 years ago
Marriage is an important decision of one's life.

A constant debate in the mind of youngsters today is love marriage vs arranged marriage.

Statistics indicate 75% of people in India free from arranged marriage in 90% of people love marriage.

With modernisation, love marriages are getting popularity and acceptance.
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Ashwini Prakash Hanpude said:   3 years ago
Jai hind everyone,

In my opinion, marriage is a sacred bond between two souls. Here we are discussing arrange marriage vs love marriage which is better? Both has own pros and cons.

I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because arrange marriage is becoming permission between two family so, All family members are happy and blessed you. Also arrange marriage is a part of our culture.

The divorce ratio is low in arranged marriages as compared to love marriages.

In an arranged marriage, there is a new journey for two souls and their life. Make interesting to know each other, but in a love marriage, both are already known each other so after marriage sometimes life becomes boring and it is a big cause of divorce in a love marriage.

In arranged marriage not only two souls but also two families come together therefore happiness is high.
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Akarshi said:   3 years ago
From my point of view, love marriage and arrange marriage are two ways to marry.

It can't be said which is a better way to marry. Because in arranged marriage your parents find your partner and maybe you never meet 1before to that person. On the other hand in a love marriage, you find a partner for you. From whom you meet before you know him well. But it doesn't clarify that a love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in some cases your partner whom you love a lot may cheat on you in future and give you a divorce.

On the other hand, a partner who is chosen by your parents will never give you divorce by family pressure or maybe you are connected to that unknown person most. May you both will understand each other's feelings, habits, likes and dislikes.

In my opinion, I will say that you should have to choose your partner wisely whether it's a love marriage or a arranged marriage.

Because it doesn't matter which marriage are you doing but matters what you doing. You have to choose the right partner for you, a partner who really cares about u, who gives attention to you and the main thing who respects you. And you should do the same things to him.
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