Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

Hello friends.

In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.

Thank you.

So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.

According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.

What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.

Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.

So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.

Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.

In my opinion, both the topics stand equally right. In today's scenario, in arrange marriage, parents give both people ample of time to understand each other before taking a final call. This helps them to understand each other in a better way. While talking about love marriage, the understanding betwen the two persons is very high as they are together for a longer period of time and knows each other in a beter way in every aspect of life.

In my opinion, dealing with the today's scenario where the parents are supportive there is not much difference between the love and arrange marriage because in both of them you get the time to know your partner.

Hello, my dear friends.

In my point of view, it's very difficult to say which is really better among love marriage and arranged marriage. Both or like head and tails. Sometimes love marriage is better as same time arranged also better in some cases. But marriage is most important part of every ones life. I ll try to explain with an example as we know very well arranged marriages are can be done by parents without knowing their children opinion, we can say its a family forced marriage, but they ll care about them before and after marriage also. They will protect and save them in difficult situations even. But the persons who are going to marry thy don't know each others much. They may face problems after getting married. If come to love marriage both are comfortable with each other because they knew their behavior, tastes, decision making ufcourse everything. So they can live very easily but they might be eliminated by the families in some cases. At that time they might not have much protection. One more point I want to mention as we know now a days the persons who got love married they are also taking divorce then what is the meaning of love and where is the love. Where she/ he wants to go ? This we can see in arranged marriage also. The family save them. Finally, I'm concluding this topic it's difficult to say but I can stick with arranged marriage only. Thank you.

The gap what we observe between love marriage and arrange marriage can be minimised if parents starts seeing love marriage not in negative sense. They should think what is more important the community or their children. Simultaneously if a person decides to go against their parents they must think million times because no-one can be more important for a person than his/her mom and dad. There could be various issues of different people with their parents but they are always most respected.

Hello everyone!

According to me, love marriage is everyone's dream but all dreams can't happen in reality.

So family support is most necessary if not.

Then anyone should do arrange marriage because nothing is bigger than our family which is our base.

Our parents do so many sacrifices for us and.

Unfortunately, they are demanding for arrange marriage and they are against of love marriage then only do whatever our family want because our love marriage feelings are too small in front of their love, care, financial support and most importantly so many sacrifices.

Finally, love after or before marriage does not matter but understanding, care and love make a happy married life forever.

Hello everyone,

I would say that I support love marriages because we have been taught that marriage is not a game and everyone has to take it seriously. Love marriage allows a person to know their partners in a better way that is likes, dislikes, comfort zones etc. Which can help them in taking their bond to an upper level. Love is the only guardian of every relationship and in arrange marriages love doesn't happens by choice but because their is no other choice. If you say that there can be problems between parents and children because love marriage then let me tell you sir that problems may occur in arrange marriages too. And what matters is that one should have the right to choose their own life partners because one has to spend one's whole life with that person.

Hi myself Manisha.

My perception is candid about both ways of marriage. If you succeed in your life and you have the best relationship with someone, spontaneously your family will agree easily in case of love marriage. And arranged marriage would be your option. Thank you.

In my opinion, the arrange marriages are much better than love marriages because first of all it is according to the consent and happiness of both the families. Secondly, parents are children's best wishes. So they decide the best for their children. And life is much more sorted in arrange marriage than a love marriage.

Hello everyone.

Good morning all my dear friends.

Myself Ashutosh Singh Kushwaha.

Today topic is Love Marriage Vs Arrange Marriage.

I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. In my opinion, LOVE MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN ARRANGE MARRIAGE. Because in love marriage we know everything about our partners before marriage. Generally, both the partners know each other very well in terms of likes, dislikes, ambition etc and they already idea about their future. In love marriage, the most important factor is that destroy the dowry system.

LOVE IS GIFT OF GOD.

That's why I supported LOVE MARRIAGE.

THANK YOU.