Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Prince said:
7 years ago
According to me, both marriages are based on the trust. Trust on parents in arranged marriages that with whom you have to spend your whole life they will choose the deserving one.
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Sajedul said:
7 years ago
If love marriage turns into arrange marriage, it will be better for the future family planning of spouse. You can love someone/anyone but you can not get married to anyone without violating your guardian permission.
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Shankar said:
7 years ago
Arranged Marriage are best because the family support and you have a pleasent life than the love marriage. Family is the first thing they brought up with the most struggle for us. So, we should accept the reality of our parents decision.
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Susil kumar malik said:
7 years ago
In my point of view, both are good when two people understand each of problem and solve each other other than both marriages have the trouble of life.
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Anu patel said:
7 years ago
Hello everyone according to me love marriage is better than the arrange marriage because marriage becomes only one time each person so its special for everyone and marriage all about depends on the two-person like dislike ambition efficiency and all that if two-person already knew each other, not facing future problem etc. So, In My point of view, the love marriage is better to thank you.
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Ranjeet kumar said:
7 years ago
I think arrange marriage is better than love marriage because all parent ' wishs. My child follow me because no risk in our culture.
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Anya said:
7 years ago
According to me, the love marriage is better than arrange marriage why because before marriage we know and understand with each other. But in arrange marriage our parents will bring matches and we agree to parents decision.
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Mohit khokhar said:
7 years ago
I support the arrange marriage.
In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.
Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.
The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.
Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.
Thank you.
In an arranged marriage, parents do enquiry about each other family so there is a probability that the marriage will happen in the similar kind of family.
Parents or relatives will think about the future of economic conditions.
The couple most like think about both of their families so they will learn to adjust.
Family and well-wishers are still there if there happens something wrong after marriage.
Thank you.
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Abinash said:
7 years ago
Hello friends.
In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.
Thank you.
In my opinion, I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we already knew each other. There is less chance of dowry during marriage and also domestic violence in the society would be less if its a love marriage. So, we should definitely encourage live marriage so that we can't get out of any trouble and enjoy the future life in safely.
Thank you.
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KAMMY said:
8 years ago
So, You basically have 3 Options - Stay as a bachelor, Find the love of your life and go for love marriage, and, finally, trust your parents in hope that they will find a best match for you i.e. going for an arranged marriage.
According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.
What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.
Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.
So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.
Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
According to me, whether you want to become a bachelor for life, or get yourself engaged (love or arranged) - its totally upto you, upto your upbringing i.e.whether you have brought up in rural areas or urban areas (while this impacts your marriage decision a lot in terms of "Log kya Kahenge?") , what are your skills and education level, are you introvert or extrovert?, and your complete lifestyle. They really impact the MARRIAGE STUFF AT FIRST.
What else? Like everyone has said - go for love as there is better understanding or go for arranged as there are no divorce cases because your family with support you. Go for love as, since, you know your partner better, so, he will take care of you for lifetime and go for arranged, as no matter what the situation your family will always be there for you. Bla bla bla.
Hey Folks! "There are all standarized and so-old-sayings. Please come out of that". You will get love, support, care and dowry-free life from both marriages - - if your partner is good and if his family has a good modern thinking. I love doing "Love Marriages" because I love doing it and I have no particular reason of doing it. But, but, I am of the other opinion here as well. In case, I don't find a partner of my choice (who is good by heart, appearance doesn't matter too much | who will respect me and my parents | who will support me through every walks of life, IN RETURN, I ALSO HAVE TO MAKE SURE OF THIS). "Always try to have a Give and Take Attitude in your life", I will go for "Arranged Marriage" - who knows whom you were unable to find can be found by your Parents itself! May be, your parents can help you find the person of your type, taste and choice as they know you well so, they may know, who can fit you well.
So, In one aspect, Marriages are just matter of "CHOICES" and on other aspect, they are all about "THINKING" which you pals have provided in the discussion box.
Rest, there is no halt to this discussion of MARRIAGE. It will be complex as you will make it. So, KEEP IT SIMPLE, STUPID.
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