Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Jack said:
8 years ago
The one who loves you and whom you love back.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
There are always good and bad sides of every person, love makes you accept a person along with his shortcomings.
If you do love marriage and continue to love that person after marriage, you will find that person to be perfect life partner.
Same case with arranged marriage, if you develop love after marriage, its OK, you will accept that person and will always try to look on the bright side, even in the dark times.
If there is no love in between the couple after marriage, then that marriage becomes a contract and that marriage is dragged for the sake of parents or children.
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Chinni said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, love and arranged marriages have the equal importance.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
All we need is understanding, self-respect, and affection. They both should respect one another. Care for one another. Two bodies and single soul represents a good pair.
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Shalini said:
8 years ago
I just think arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. Because love marriage becomes failure after a small misunderstanding but a arrange marriage becomes long lasting. The main disadvantage of love marriage the couples know each other only as positively view not negatively view but in arrange marriage our family investigate all thing about bride/groom so that as my point of view arrange marriage is far batter than love marriage. But some time love marriage also become successful and some time arrange marriage also become failure it totally depends upon the couples.
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Deepak Mandal said:
8 years ago
I think love marriage is better than arrange marriage because, in love marriage, couples are known very well each other. Love marriage is our aspects of life.
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Riya gupta said:
8 years ago
Hello.
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
Thank you.
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
Thank you.
(47)
Bhadale said:
8 years ago
I will go for an Arranged marriage.
In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.
In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.
While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.
In love, there may be attraction towards each other which gets lost after some time. In love marriage, the boy and girl are leaving with their families. They are not independent. The game will start after independency. There are too many Bollywood actors actresses who love and breakup, divorce each other. Cases of wrong love marriage are also more. As the parents expectations from the bride may vary. Some will say to do job and house work both also. While some will say to leave the job. Traditions of grooms home will vary. And many times love marriage is only for bringing a good bride to home, where the drama of groom will end, after the marriage. Two families should have equal status. To leave in cojoint family or separated family also becomes the issue.
In arrange marriage this things are already discussed in between family persons and job of the bride groom, their status, grooms income, family conditions (whether to do job?, where to live cojoint?) are discussed neatly.
While love before marriage is not official and it can happen and break many times but the marriage and divorce are official. Love has no end and it does not need to be young age. It can happen at any time, so it's good to do official things than doing many unofficial things.
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Tejaswini said:
8 years ago
In my point of view, both arranged and love marriages have the same role. In any marriage all we require is mutual understanding, mutual respect and loving each other, sharing their happiness and sadness and caring each other.
Support each other at any time of situation.
Finally, I want to say that either in love or arranged marriage which has love between the couple after marriage is the perfect. It looking like two persons but a single soul indicates a fabulous pair.
Support each other at any time of situation.
Finally, I want to say that either in love or arranged marriage which has love between the couple after marriage is the perfect. It looking like two persons but a single soul indicates a fabulous pair.
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Satish jetti said:
8 years ago
Boss, it's all about marriage with whom, and how she/he commits with you, either its love or arrange.
When people really can't understand each other, when they don't have personal space, then that relation never stands forever.
Here, we can say one thing.
Love or arrange. When people get married, they have to be with their partner. So, better love your partner, at least relationship remain strong.
When people really can't understand each other, when they don't have personal space, then that relation never stands forever.
Here, we can say one thing.
Love or arrange. When people get married, they have to be with their partner. So, better love your partner, at least relationship remain strong.
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Jitendra baghel said:
8 years ago
Hello, friends, my name is Jitendra Baghel.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
According to me, that both marriages are good. But is depending on the person who how to feel in both marriages. In my way that both marriages is completely good for every person because I notice that every person is so happy with any type of marriage. I know that some people are disappointed with love marriage and arrange marriage. I think both marriages is good because in love marriage Boy and girl are know each other perfectly and they understand each other perfectly and also in arrange marriage boy and girl know each other after some time. So both marriage is completely good but you do not take any decision without your family permission because if you want love marriage but your family want to arrange marriage Then you take your family decision because our family never think bad for us.
Thank you.
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Dan said:
8 years ago
I believe that there is no use of debating whether love marriage is better or arranged because both are good in their own ways and it depends from person to person and from family to family.
It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.
Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.
It is always good to know a person really well before we take a step ahead and get married which is a feature of love marriage. And since both of you know each other well there is a strong chance of sustenance. Again in arranged marriage, our parents choose our life partner depending on compatibility and status which is again important because there will be ego clash if we don't belong to the same status.
Both has pros and cons because in the case of love marriage couples get bored of each other easily since they know each other beforehand whereas in arranged marriage they get to know each other slowly and gradually and their marriage grows slowly. Again in love marriage, you know the person well before you take the plunge but in arranged marriage, since we don't know the person well, he/she might turn out to be someone else after marriage. This discussion won't end so we can conclude that it depends totally on the person involve in marriage and also LUCK.
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