Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Arya said:
8 years ago
Love marriage is better one because in that the two persons can understand each other. There is total transparency about each other. A boy knows well if his soulmate can manage his family as a integral unit, if she is perfect to fit into the system.
So, I strongly support love marriage.
So, I strongly support love marriage.
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Amit Rana said:
8 years ago
Love marriage.
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
- Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the whole life with each other.
- Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on the couple only and nobody else.
- Couple is aware of each other's likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get along well.
- Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
- The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding between the couple.
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Mani said:
8 years ago
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
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Anna Arya said:
8 years ago
Hello everyone,
According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.
So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.
Thank you.
According to me, both marriages have the same effect on life. As it is said the wedding is decided in heaven so no matter what you do. If you love someone and your family is ready for it then it is a perfect marriage. Your family's permission and happiness also should be included in your love relation because your parents have seen this world more than you and they more know the person, better than you. They will do whatever will be best for you because they will never want that their children will be woeful. They upbringing you and it is also your responsibility that you never make them unhappy just because of a boy/girl whom you know before some years. There are also some cases that couples get married and after some time flay occurs and both get separated that time family support is very important though family also stand with them that time.
So we should also understand our responsibility towards them. I am not saying love marriage is bad but the family's will and blessings also be with it.
Thank you.
(38)
Amy Dwivedi said:
8 years ago
Apart from this, both love and arranged marriage are good based on the couples. In both relationships, they need to take care of each other, respect each other, love for each other and the main thing they don't have EGO for each other. Then their life will be very happy.
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Varaprasad said:
8 years ago
Parents love is the only true love forever. Lovers love may or may not be true like the saying "All that glitters is not gold".
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
Love marriage means boy and girl should love each other and it should be acceptable to both of their parents. Then only it would be a true love marriage.
If I want to buy a product I will see the brand. If the brand is known, I can trust the product. Otherwise, that product may or may not be good. Lover is the product and parents are the brand. If you choose the product to inform your parents immediately. They inquire about the brand. If they accept ask them to make arrangements for marriage. After marriage, you love each other and be happy.
In India, one will get good match only for the first time. So don't take your own nasty decision. If it fails in the first time, your entire life will be spoiled. The Loss will be more for a girl. You will loose your life and your parents will lose their dignity and fame.
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Meghana said:
8 years ago
Unlike the medieval times, parents of this generation are taking the opinion of the bride/groom before marriage and love marriages are accepted these days.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
So keeping aside love and arranged both have advantages and disadvantages of their own. But one can lead happy life only when *boy/girl are ready for a positive breakup in love. They might be many reasons. Parents may oppose them, they might have a difference in opinions etc.
If you are able to convince your parents then its okay but there might be some chances of disapproving. So before you fall in love. Ensure yourself that you are emotional, mentally okay even after a breakup.
Well! Coming into arranged marriage. Having zero expectation on the spouse will make you lead a better life.
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Jitesh said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, Love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because we can easily know about our life partner. Because understanding is too mandatory. Because it a most important step of our life. If you believe in arrange marriage. It's not a right way. Because we have to spend our entire life. I think in arrange marriage. We have to more sacrifice than love marriage. If someone highly educated than you. In that time, you'll have to face lots of problems. So it's my point of view.
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Sandy said:
8 years ago
I think Love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage boys and girls they take the own responsibilities. And, I think this is the most important part of our life.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
Taking the responsibility is not a small thing.
I strongly support love marriage is better than arrange marriage.
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Satyendra kumar said:
8 years ago
As for as the boot point is concerned love marriage vs arranged marriage. I'm in pros arrange marriage. According to my point of view, both are good as well as bad. Because that depends on the life partner but mostly new age boys and girls pros on love marriage. Because in the love marriage before a marriage you all know that about your life partner likes and dislikes etc.
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