Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages
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Sanju bishnoi said:
9 years ago
I think arrange marriage is best for you and your parents because in love marriage everything happens before marriage so every people not like this.
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Reddy said:
9 years ago
In my view, Arranged Marriages is more better than Love Marriages. AM always make us more responsible that leads to life move forward in a blessed way and both partners work hard and without ego's for the bright features. AM also more secure bc we have lot of support from both bride& groom families.
In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
In LM, mostly it would happen on Attraction, Passion, arrow view on positive way and Age of beauty. These all things won't lead a life for a long time might there is a chance of breaks and diverse due to misunderstanding, ego issues and no support from family, society, friends, no security.
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Shiv said:
8 years ago
My dear friend, according to my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage. Because if your family select a girl for you and after marriage quality of your wife is different from you then we face a problem. I support love marriage only one condition if the family of both boy and girl are satisfied with this marriage.
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Jai said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, arrange marriage is better then love because nowadays if any family choose boy for there girl and girl for there boy they give us time for understand to each other if we satisfied with each thought, like, dislike and any quality what are you want on there partner then they do marriage of couple. Nowadays no any family want their boy or girl live any trouble in future.
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DIBYAJYOTI PATTNAIK said:
7 years ago
Good morning ladies and gentlemen,
Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.
Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".
Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.
Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.
So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.
THANK YOU.
Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.
Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".
Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.
Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.
So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.
THANK YOU.
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Sravya said:
9 years ago
Hi friends, in my point of view both marriages are best. Whatever it is love or arranged marriage every husband and wife must understand each other. Otherwise, it will become divorce.
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Mritunjay said:
9 years ago
I think love marriage is better but after some time it becomes lose but in arranged marriage, it reverses. The couple is so old their love is increasing day to day.
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Riya gupta said:
9 years ago
Hello.
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
Thank you.
As per my views, I think love marriages and arranged marriages both are equally good their is no need to discuss which one is better because it depends on person to person.
If a person and his family are comfortable with love marriage then it is best and if with arrange marriage then it's also OK.
But the main problem arises in our country is that most of the people consider love marriage as a crime. So because of this teenager take the wrong decision which is against the family and society thus because of this crime increases and condition of love marriage is going to bad day after day.
But I hope as we are of growing personality so in upcoming 30-40 years all such type of problems overcome because at that stage most of the people educated and aware of all these things and I wish it all happen as soon as possible.
Thank you.
(47)
Adarsh Pandey said:
8 years ago
Love marriage is far better than the arrange marriage because,
Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.
Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.
And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.
This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.
Normally, in love marriages, partners have their own mutual understanding and they know each other as well and that is the main point.
Parents can take our decisions but in others cases, because our parents is not going to live our life.
And another point is that parents always say that whatever they did in their life only for their child only for their happiness and if his/her child is happy to marry a girl to whom he knows very well then why not parents are ready to accept it.
This is the main thing I just want to say to you guys.
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Shahrukh khan said:
8 years ago
In my opinion, both type of marriage is good, it's not about type of marriage, it's all about partners, I have seen both the marriage converted into divorce so it doesn't matter which type of marriage we go through, most important thing in marriage is understanding between partner's, trust, honesty, loyalty and how they cooperate with each other.
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