Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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Shrutika solat said:   9 years ago
Whether you go for love or arrange marriage doesn't matter you should keep one thing in mind that relationship should be based on mutual understanding, respect, trust, and commitment.
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Komal Sainath said:   9 years ago
I don't think this comparison between types of marriages really applies. It all depends on how the couple conducts themselves. How mature enough they are to handle their life together and balance it equally. It doesn't matter what the world says about you then. It doesn't matter if parents agree or not because eventually if they see that you are happy with your partner, they will be bound to step down and care only for your happiness. Love or arranged, any of the two can fail miserably but not if they respect each other and talk it out calmly in a mature way.
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Pooja Sharma said:   9 years ago
Hello, everyone.

In my opinion, both marriages having some failure and some successes. So, I think both marriages are good and it totally based on couples. In both relationships, they need to trust, respect, love each other, take care of each other and the main thing they adjust and cooperate with each other and with their families also.
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Ruchita Sonkusare said:   8 years ago
Hello friends,

I think love is in the air only till you get married, after marriage no matter whether it's a love marriage or arrange marriage.

Love marriage is not appreciated in a traditional society like India because in India it's not the marriage of 2 souls not a marriage of 2 families.

Love is nothing but chemical locha, in other words, its infatuation only.

In today's world, people fall in love numerous times in life. With so many incidents of falling in love, at last, only mind can help you to make a right choice.

Those who listen to their mind, go for arrange marriage, if you start taking decisions from the heart then life will be a mess.
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NILESH said:   8 years ago
In my point of views, I believe it doesn't matter what type we have chosen. How we handle this knot (marriage) that's a matter a lot. Whether it is love marriage or arrange marriage Trust, affection, equality and understanding this all things should be there with no ego only can ones marriage life lead a successful way.

For love marriage:

When we have right to leave with our parents simultaneously we have right to find our partner.

We know our partner very well and know each possibility of him or her.

Social Evils like dowry can eradicate with a mutual understanding of couples.

For Arrange marriage:

Parents, the striking feature of arrange marriage is we have supported from parents and family.

Our parents also had gone through with arranging a marriage so they have more experience, haven't they? So we should trust them.

In love marriage, we already know our partner so if in future any quarrel will raise it definitely lead to divorce whereas in arrange marriage partner try to understand and manage the situation calmly while keeping their ego aside because they are totally new they try to make comfort zone and understand each other.

Every side has merits and demerits. It depends on partners that how they tackle situations.

Thnks.
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Afina shamsudeen said:   7 years ago
Hi friends.

I'm a girl of just 18 years old. I don't have much knowledge about life, especially marriage life. I think it depends on the nature of the people who are getting married, the longevity and prosperity of their married life. But I have an opinion of life is not a mere fantasy, I mean it gives pleasure for us to read an ideal true relationship in stories. But life is not a theory to be stated theoretically, rather it has a lot to do in practice. So I do believe in love, true love after marriage. It believes it will give the very same pleasure that a good love affair can give and it's so comforting to have a relationship after marriage with the partner.

Thanks. Have a nice time.
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Rohit sharma said:   7 years ago
Good morning friends, I am Rohit Sharma.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.

But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.

Thanks.

Now, I want to some point of views of my friends.
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Nayana said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, I favour love marriage with permission of our parents. Two persons know each other, understand each other and they are the ones who decided to live their rest of life together. It makes life better. Your partner will be supportive and helpful for you in achieving your dreams. Whereas a person whom you just met and married won't be able to understand your dreams or your wishes.
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Himanshu Kumar said:   5 years ago
Hello everyone.

In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage.

I want to share my own views in front of you about love marriage.

1. In the love marriage the couple understand each other very well so they solve the problem each other and handle it easily.

2. They choose to each other without any compromise so the parents do not found to demand dowry. It is a blessing for society.

3. In the love marriage the caste system has ended.
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Kukur singh said:   7 years ago
According to me,

Love marriage and Arrange marriage both depends on merit and demerits. If we take love marriage we know about our partner already and make life successful but our country believes in custom and not fully accept love marriage so We have faced our society our family.

On Other hand, our society believes in Arrange marriage and support this type of marriage but we have no idea about our partner and after sometimes make confuse and also in case we have faced sometimes divorce.
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