Love Marriages Vs Arranged Marriages

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DIBYAJYOTI PATTNAIK said:   7 years ago
Good morning ladies and gentlemen,

Marriage is nothing but a close bonding of two families. In my opinion both the marriage has equal importance. Like every dish has its own ingredients like wise every marriage has also its own ingredient and the main ingredients are love, caring, honesty, loyalty, understanding each other problem and standing for each other family. The ingredient which should be diminished or kept away is "EGO" of each other.

Problems arises in every marriage may be its love or arrange because in arrange marriage we don't know each other except names and in which company we are working, so it takes 1 to 2 year to know each other choices and behavior. In that period of time a lot of patience is required and the key to that special bond is the most important word called "SORRY".

Like wise in love marriage from the beginning we know each other so after marriage the expectation level of each other increases rapidly, and if in the same point your behavior changes then argument takes place.

Every problem which arises should be solved within the four walls of the room without involving a third party.

So, the major thing we should have a clear chit with our partner and make clear that there is no misunderstanding within us.

THANK YOU.
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Saloni said:   7 years ago
In my opinion, love marriage is better than arrange marriage because in love marriage we know all about our partner's likes dislikes and behaviour. It connects two peoples Hurtly and they both also feels like that they made for each other. Mutual understanding between this two peoples is better. Because these things are very important for a couple to continue there happy life.

But in arrange marriage we are unknown about each other. And most of the love marriages are converted to a arrange marriage by the permission of parents. They will also support this.
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Anjali said:   7 years ago
Everything has pros and cons, thanks for giving me a chance, I think both are good in their place it depends on the couple, how much trust, love can they give the relation.

I prefer to love marriage because it's better to know your partner instead after getting married. No only know your partner very well his like dislike happiness sadness but the main thing is understanding which is necessary for making the relation, if she/he can support him/her their critical time, they support him/her any conditions so this relation is really appreciable.
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Naveena D said:   7 years ago
Good Morning Friends,

Marriage is an important part of every human's life. It helps to keep their next career path with their life partner. So both love and arrange marriage is always provide happiness. But we first should choose the partner our life. So choice is yours.

Love is nothing but unthinkable feeling our life. It cannot explain. However, before we married we love first in our partner. That is one soul in two body's. Love provide lot of happiness. So we feel it. Truly we love our life partner. So we choose the best partner even however before or arrange marriage. But how marriage is important in our life that way is also important in our parent's life.

So parents choose our life partner then, we love our partner after marriage. Love marriage or arrange marriage anything in our life. We love really and rightly with our life partner. That is important our life.
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Libin said:   7 years ago
Hello.

I am Libi,

Marriage is an important event in every human's life. In that, they start a life with a partner. They share their feelings, happiness, good and also bad. After marriage, running a family is an important thing, if you have money then the love was much stronger but arranged marriage you have or haven't much stronger.

Here my thought is first we want to settle then arranged and then love your wife.
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Vinayak said:   7 years ago
Good afternoon everyone,

Marriage is very importantant part in social institution. My frends this is very serious and important topics about life. In love marriage both partener are kown to each other while in case of arranged marriage both partner do not know to each other. According to my opinion, love marriage is better than arranged marriage because in love marriage both partners know each other (their like, dislike etc). They do not give any blame to others in future in their life. While in arrange marriage many problems faced by the couple.
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P. Raja sekher said:   7 years ago
In My point of view, marriage is the best of our life.

When the couples are dealing with understanding our thought out life being love and affection and blessings of parents and family members and starting to happiness life of carrier.
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Kiran Gajul said:   7 years ago
I think, Love is the main factor that binds two individuals. Saints and poets alike have praised it. Therefore love marriages have more chances of success because there is pre-marital understanding between the would-be couples. More often, unpleasant consequences arise only when love is obstructed or the period of courtship is very short. If love is given way to and the latter is taken care of, love marriages succeed and nothing else.
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Jyoti manwal said:   7 years ago
First, what is marriage? Marriage means to start a new life with a loveable person who knows us very well, our likes, dislikes, and all things. So there is a two way to spend our new life 1) -love marriage and 2) - arrange marriage. So I m in a favor of love marriage. Because In love marriage we both know each other perfectly. We can understand easily. And most important thing, there will be no dowry system. No violence. And after that, we will live life happily.
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Latchiyavani said:   7 years ago
Hi,

In my point of view, arrange marriage is best.

Because the reason we will get more bonding in life rather than love marriage bonding.

It is a new human in our life he had entered with full of trust and love. So, arrange marriage is best.
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